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Why is he being a jerk abt this?
I broke up w/ my b/f like a month ago....And he knows the reason we broke up was bcuz he pushed me away w/ the stupid fights that didnt have 2 happen, they were pointless....Well i found me a new guy....He's great n knows how 2 treat me n he doesnt fight over stupid things....Well my ex knows him bcuz they got n 2 a fight last yr at one of a guys parties....Well so my ex starts sayin mean things 2 me n sayin other things abt my current bf.My ex said one nite that when me n him was 2 gthr that he never did really love me he just said it so he didnt hurt me n a bunch of other hurtful things, then the next minute he says he still luvz me n he texts me n he always calls me my pet name he game me n he gives me goodnite text n says i luv u all the time, he also is talkin 2 another girl, he talks abt her, but i dont think he wants 2 really b w/ her.Anyways he doesnt want her 2 kno me n him r friends. I dont want 2 b w/ him anymore, i dont think.cuz im not happy anymore.
O also, i let my friend use my phone 2 talk 2 her bf but instead she starts textin my ex and see she knows my current bf cuz she liked him but he liked me not her so me and him started going out...well anyway she starts talkin 2 my ex on my phone and shes talking to him abt me and my current bf....it made me mad cuz she wont tell me what they were talking abt and then she deletes every single messsage on my phone....well i text my ex and ask him and he wont tell me....i mad me mad... i didnt talk 2 anyone 4 like the rest of the day, well besides my bf and he calmed me down (he's the only one that can)....
my bf and I talked abt it and we think they r planning 2 break us apart so i would go back w/ my ex and she would go w/ my current bf....IDK, thats what we think.
QUESTION IS: What is goin on in this situation? Why are they actin like this? Does my ex still want me, Why wont he just say so? Ummm, Anything other advise...PLZ GIVE ME.....
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Girl...you are with a new man, forget about what your ex is saying to you because he is only doing it because he still has some sort of feelings for you. And unless you share those feelings then you shouldnt really care what he thinks since you have moved on to bigger and better things!!! Enjoy your new boo and give him all your time instead of making him think that part of your thoughts are allways going to be on your ex....Good luck!!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He's being a jerk because he thinks it's your fault for not giving him a chance to get back together. If you really love this new guy, then you should stop seeing your ex. He is also mad at you because during this period AFTER you break up, there is a period of time that he has to THINK about what to do with you. There are two chices, get back together or seperate forever. YOU DIDN'T GIVE ENOUGH TIME FOR HIM TO MAKE THAT CHOICE!!! Thats why he is being a jerk. It is already too late though, and you have a new bf, so I will advise you break all connections with him and MOVE ON.
- November RainLv 51 decade ago
From my experience, when a guy know that you are "his" gf and so all, they think they can do anything to you and will think that you shouldn't get hurt. Even pointless fights are like joke to them. Once they lose you they are too desperate to get you back. I am sure that's whats happening with you ex-bf now. Give him some time. If you don't want to get back with him, just tell him that firmly once and if he still doesn't get the point ignore him. You should also put his number on the ignore list in your phone if he continues to text you. Good Luck !!!
- CeCeLv 41 decade ago
First of all if you didn't care what your ex thinks then you wouldn't be asking a question about him. It sounds like your ex takes up more of your day then your current bf. You need to decide what and who you want or you will not like the new pet name you will get.
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- Anonymous5 years ago
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- louieLv 61 decade ago
not sure what your question is but if you want to know why one minute he says he dosnt love you and didnt, and the next he says he does, its because he really does care about you still and he is jelous that you have moved on.
If you are gonna be friends with him, and are happy in your relationship then keep it friends. The text messages he sends you that are lovey dovey have to stop and you have to tell him so. If you recipricate his messages you are gonna be leading him on and thats not fair.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well if this what you want just block him n dont let him play with you mind because it will affect with ur new friend eventually so cut all contact with your ex good luck to you n god bless you be happy think of you
- 1 decade ago
so just ignore him...stop texting just ignore his text and move on with life.....id say he still loves u and is using this other girl to hurt you because he is hurt because ur with another guy. just be sure what u want before u make ur mind up but once u do...stand by it
- 1 decade ago
didnt you understand till now that actually he's being jealous of your new guy...guys that regret breaking up generally do that...so as a peice of advise i would like to say dont believe this ex of yours even if he says crap about your new bf...best of luck for that
- DanielLv 51 decade ago
your ex needs to grow up. drop him. if he persists, get a restraining order, he doesnt love you.
if you found someone that treats you right, you have what you need, there should be no reason to go back.
tell him to quite texting you because its over, and you moved on.
good luck.