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girls only please! advise on girls!?

im 17, and was just wondering how do i know when it is right to make some sort of a move. I dont want 2 be rejected.and how do i go about doing it? thank you!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    the girl will definitely give you signs. definitely. if she tries to touch you or get closer i'd go for it

  • 1 decade ago

    a move with someone that you are going out with or a move to get a girl? if you are already going out and you're worried about going to fast just start really slow even ask her, girls think it's cute! it shows that they respect you and that they care! if you are trying to make a move if she makes a lot of eye contact, or if she is very shy just start making little contact, like a hand on her shoulder or something or just a little tap when you're talking kind of thing. If you can feel that she is ready, and if you are with her you will be able to sense it, and if she is shy and isn't going to do it herselft, then you do it. nothing really big just soemthing small!

  • 1 decade ago

    email me and tell me the situation. im 17 too and have lots of experience with asking and stuff caz the guys i like are shy...and vice versa. but generally, if you're shy, all you ohave to do is tell your self now or never and command yourself to go do it. and afterwards you'll feel great that you took the risk. trust me. EVEN if she says no! because now you know how it worked out. i wouldn't ask her on a date RIGHT AWAY just ask her if she wants to hang out some time...that you have SOO much time this weekend.good luck. im going through the same thing with my personal trainer. i like him, but he's really outgoing and can't tell if he lieks me..so i took a chance and while we were training i asked him if he wanted to hang out during the weekend and he was def up for it. however, I think he's just the flirting type and we'll be just friends; nothing will become of it. push yourself:) but most importantly, dont think about it too much.

  • 1 decade ago

    there is never a rite moment. u have to take a risk. but then if u feel that the time is rite, tat the girl is the rite one and u're confident of urself, then go ahead do it. on tis matter u have to follow ur heart. no amount of advise or idea will help. u just have to follow ur gut feelings. many ways you can do it. directly or indirectly. like i said if u're confident of urself and ur luv, approach her when she's alone and tell her bout ur feelings or u can either send her flowers and attached a card with ur name and ur contact. if she knows u and calls back, gud if not try again. but i think u shud approach her cos wats the worst tat can happen, she'll only say no. so carry on with ur life.

  • Emma
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Tell her she's beautiful, try to give her a hug and linger just a little too long. Hold her hand or brush an (imaginary) eyelash off her face. Hold her eye contact. If she's feeling you she'll flirt back, then go in for a kiss.

  • 1 decade ago

    Start talking to the girl.

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