Poll: A question for the ladies?

Nothing, what comes around goes around.

I don't cheat. I'm with a person or I'm not. There is a clear and precise break off and ending of a relationship before the beginning of the next. Something my ex didn't understand. Married|Not Married -- there is no middle ground there. So, I didn't begin a relationship with someone else until I was solidly and legally in the Not Married category. Works the same way for Exclusively Involved|Not Involved. No gray areas except in my hair.

If wasn't in love and wanted to cheat, I would end the relationship first.. I wouldn't cheat, it is disrespectful and hurtful, not to mention I wouldn't want anyone to do it to me. Someone did once and it hurt real bad, our relationship eventually ended over it. I was broken hearted.

It really isn't a nice thing to do to anyone, if you wanna cheat just leave. You obviously aren't enchanted with the person anymore so end it, that's what I say

Nothing. If you don't love that person anymore, you should leave, break up w. them, do whatever you have to, to be happy. I was in an abusive realtionship and that did not motivate me to cheat...not at all.

If your willing to cheat on someone, you are not respecting them like they should be respected. And you are doing it b.c they are not respecting you, then leave! It sounds easier than it is, but no one should be in a relationship they don't want to be in.

I personally would never cheat on someone, it's really low and disrespectful in my eyes.

if the one true love of my life (in love since about 10 years old then he moved away when we were 18 after 5 years of dating) came back, i think that i would cheat just to see if i still loved him...but for anyone or anything else, i wld NEVER cheat

I would never cheat, I would just get out of the relationship first. Self control brings maturity, why would I invite more problems?

personally if something is wrong with the relationship, i will be the first one to lay it out there and get out of it. i don't condone in cheating and i do not cheat.

no matter if he cheated on me or whatever, i'm out. and if he abused me i would not stay in it and cheat on him. that would be the first type of relationship to walk away from.

i was abused I left him cuz of it but I would not

have cheated citing abuse as reason

I think I would not have been able to respect my self

I may not have much at the moment (starting over)

but I have my dignity, self respect and self love

I think cheating is not something for me

I would not be able to be that woman

If say David Beckham came down from his Billboard

and swept me away well then....sorry I would be

a fallen woman (but oh so HAPPY)

sorry I am crushing on DB lately forgive me

Nothing.

I respect my relationship and in my own morals to not do that. It's much easier to break up with someone than to sink down to cheat.

Cheating is just an excuse to do something you know is wrong. There IS no excuse.

not one single thing!!! If the relationship I was in caused me to even think about cheating, I would obviously not be happy and would want to get out of it.

Are you seriously asking that question here in P&S! Most of the gals here would look like porcupines if they had as many c.o.c.ks sticking out of them as they have had in them! LOL