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Is it wronge that i have stopped believing in romantic love?

i have had some bad relationships. i was engaged a few years ago and when i came back from iraq i literally walked in on my fiancee on top some guy. I got involved in another relationship where we talking about marriage and accually setting dates to move in together and all that kind of stuff along that line just for her to tell me one day out of no where that she realized she doesnt love me. This has me seriously questioning the emotion in itself. Is that screwed up ? or does it make sense?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Dude- I honestly think love is dead. Marriage is for suckers. But I hate to even consider the actual idea to just give up and quit.

    Buy a whore or go to a strip club. I dunno, just don't quit and give up. I am trying to convince myself the same thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    Love, and even romantic love does not require marriage, co-habitation and all that stuff that seems to get in the way. I have been and still am a hopeless romantic as I know a woman will come my way who wants to slow dance with me in the moonlight. You have been wounded badly on several levels. You feelings are understandable. Like marriage, the emotion is sound~~we just make bad choices.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i know this is gonna sound corny but you just haven't found the right person! believe me, there is someone out there who will make you happy and suddenly it'll seem like the past was nothing to you. i know it's easier to say now after having gone through it but it'll happen for you and you'll appreciate it a whole lot more if you've had not so perfect relationships in the past. besides, how are you gonna know what's good if you never had what's bad?

  • tsai
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    relies upon on the persons. There are some those that place circumstances on those they fall in love with - and that they do no longer do it consciously. i think of all love must be unconditional. does no longer mean it continuously happens that way. i'm in love with my husband, and that is a romantic love...despite the fact that that is maximum easily unconditional. i like my little ones with all my heart, despite the fact that that is not a romantic love...despite the fact that that is maximum easily unconditional. I fell in love, while i substitute into youthful, and the guy became out to be a jerk....that alter into maximum easily no longer unconditional love.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i can definitely see where you're coming from. i would probably feel the same way as you do right now, but please dont give up on romantic love!!! you just havent found the right one!

    even if you have a healthy relationship with someone but dont get married, thats more than enough reason to believe in romantic love again!

    andplease answer my ? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=X3oDMTE1Mm...

  • 1 decade ago

    i really think that u should not give up or stop believing in love bc ur neva gonna find love when ur looking for it. it just happens to come ur way

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i can see why ur having some problems...thats a lot of hurt for any1 to have to deal with. dont give up tho theres someone somewhere for u...

  • 1 decade ago

    naw.. but it will happen

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