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how can I be more socialable?

Well im kind of shy

but not usually

im at a new school and met a couple of friends

and there cool and all , but i still dont talk to them as ,much

they try to make conversation with me but i give simple answers back

I mean i want to talk more but i just dont know what to say

like maybe ill say something stupid..

any help please?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well why dont you ask questions for a change and maybe you guys can find likes you have together...

    just be yourself and things will soon heat up like normal like it did with us... :]

    <u><b>im sorry ceasar i miss you soooooo much!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    The worry of embarassing yourself or sounding stupid is almost always the reason for people not being as socially outgoing as they'd like to be. Im shy as well in group settings with people I dont know very well, but I usually do fairly well with a one-on-one conversation with someone else.

    What you need to do is work on your conversation skills with someone one on one, and once you've mastered that, hopefully you'll feel mre comfortable in larger group situations. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    hi

    no worries try to make friendship with all talk to them discuss about movies,favorite food,color's,dresses,styles,bikes cars,fashions or about your subjects,teachers etc find out where they live how they come to school ?what they do after going home etc and these conversations develop rapport among u guys have

    fun take care

  • 1 decade ago

    the best bet is be your self. talk about anything you like see if they like it or just ask qustions or bring up a new movie you have seen or want to see. good luck i been there.

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