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advice about a girl issue?
i like 3 girls one has a boyfriend who lives like 4 states away, one doesn't see me the way i want her to, and the other is my ex girlsfriend that can't see past the fact that im an athiest if anyone has any advice on what to do it would be appreciated
13 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
sounds like you need a fourth. haha
seriously though.
1. dont mess with a girl that has a boyfriend. You wouldn't appreciate that being done to you.
2. The girl that doesn't see you that way is a hopeless cause. trust me the odds of her changing her mind is pretty slim
3. Religion for some believers is a deal breaker and you likely wont be able to change her mind.
The old expression "there are plenty of fish in the river." comes into play here. 3 isn't a drop in the bucket... My advice is look for someone more available TO YOU.
- 1 decade ago
The first girl is a nono because she already has a boyfriend so that is wrong in all aspects, the ex-girlfriend forget about her because if she couldn't get past you being who you are, or what you believe in when you were together or even now, then she never will, so your bet bet is to work on the second one. Just keep being yourself around her and hopefully she will come around, and if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be , but don't rush it, a good relationship will happen for you when it is ready
- 1 decade ago
the key is that you have to be you so with that said, throw the ex out the window. Now between the remaining 2, Start showing the girl how you really are gradually not too soon might send her into shock, if that dosent work out then throw her out of consideration too, with the girl with a guy may be your best bet. If she likes you and all for who you REALLY are the wait it out, long distance relationships never work, and if you focus on just her maybe drop a hint then shell realize what shes got in you hope htis helps
- Anonymous1 decade ago
kay well about the first girl, long distance relationships dont usually work out so u might still have a chance with her.
the second girl that doesnt see u the way u see her is probly liking someone else & just doesnt notice how much u appreciate her.
&& bout ur ex, it doesnt really matter if ur athiest or not so she obviously isnt worth it.
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- 1 decade ago
Find new people your most likely to find someone youlike even more. Or maybe the girl that only sees u as a friend will want you more, once she see your not around her as much and as for the other two forget about them.
- 1 decade ago
Whats the question? The question i see is the girl who only sees you as a friend, and there's not alot u can do about it. but sometimes friendship turns into romance....maybe. As far as being a atheist, if it floats your boat and doesn't hurt anybody, more power to ya. Good luck
- 1 decade ago
You are confused --- you don't know what you want.
Leave your ex-girlfriend alone--the two of you have fundamental differences that are not going to change.
The girl who doesn't like you --- the way you like her you are setting yourself up to be disappointed and hurt.
If you must pursue one of these young ladies ---the long distance relationship seems to be the winner.
- 1 decade ago
I say forget about all of them. You dont wanna get involved with the one who has a boyfriend, your ex is your ex for a reason, and if that girl doesnt see you the way you see her, it's not meant to be. Move on =D
can you help me out?
- 1 decade ago
Find someone new, are these the only 3 girls in your area? I don't think so. Move on cutie life is too short.
- 1 decade ago
go for the one in the long distance relationship, she is the one you have the best shot at getting....leave ur ex alone...and bout that other girl, she doesnt see you the way youd like her to, so leave her alone