Was I Wrong? And Will We Ever Get Back Together?

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me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago over the stupidest thing ever. We both go to separate schools, and my friends were tellin me that he's cheating, and without hesitation, i broke up with him...i didn't ask questions and i didn't have any evidence that he was cheating..i just cut him loose...and the next day i told all my friends we broke up, and they said that they were only joking about him cheating! SO I BROKE UP WITH HIM FOR NO REASON! and then i asked him could i have another chance, and he said we could "talk" so we've been talkin since then...but will we ever get back together? and does this 7 month long pause have anything to do with me breakin up with him that time?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

it seems to me that trust has been gone.  that's hard to re-build, sweetie.  i know you must be beating yourself but we all make mistakes.  let's learn from it.  7 months is a long wait.  move on, girl.  be happy.

jh · Answer

First off, I would have a pretty firm talk with your friends for "joking" about something like that--especially considering the consequences. And, honestly if I were your boyfriend I'd be pretty upset. You pretty much showed him that you don't trust him and don't respect him enough to talk about it. You should also ask yourself why you believed your friends so suddenly and so completely. As for getting back together, I can't say, but I would have a serious talk with him if it's something you're interested in. But if he hasn't brought it up in all this time, you may be just friends.

moomoo0930 · Answer

perhaps 7 months ago he felt differently about you and when you broke up with him he felt as if it were the best... but he obviously still has feelings for you and you should really bring up the situation on how you feel about bringing the realtionship back together

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Was I Wrong? And Will We Ever Get Back Together?

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