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jealousy? or what?

im in a soft rock band...theres 6 members including me...we have to vocalist ..Me and friend...well the other night while performing we try to be flexable and share the spot light..well it is obvious that we both have VERY different styles..but we never have conflict.but last night after i sung he was kinda rejective of me...and he was kind pushy or ignoreing me....my question is i love my friend dearly and he is a special person 2 me BUT i don't want our hobbies getting in the way of our friendship..should i just quit the band?

Update:

im confused i have enough relationship problems at home..should i just liberate myself of an extra stress?

Update 2:

theres enough drama with his GF being over dramatic...

Update 3:

talking is not an option with him...he doesn't like talking about meaningful stuff

Update 4:

thanks K B *smiles* great answer...i didn't think of that.

Update 5:

thanks ric i'll try plus i have *411**winks* thats code lol i have him to deal with 2

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    The "spotlight" is big enough for both of you. Jealousy is so petty. Sit and talk, if your friend is upset about something going on, the best thing to do is get on it and get it out of the way so not to ruin everything else. You both have a talent worth sharing and sharing is what it should be all about.

  • kay b
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    you dont even know if that is the reason why they are being objective of you because of that or not and your ready to quit. dont quit at least try to talk to them first before you make such a big decision. (^_^)

  • 1 decade ago

    Why make it so dramatic? Just talk to him/her

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