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MEN? Do you notice when a woman you use to date or had sex with in the past LOSES a lot of weight?
I am not losing weight solely for men. I am doing it first for my health, secondly for myself and yes---thirdly for all the guys who've gave me those "Uhh she's cute in the face, but a little too pudgy in the waist" looks. I am 5'4 and currently 171. Was 175. My goal is 125-130. I KNOW that I am going to acheive this. But to keep me motivated, I like to envision some of my past beaus seeing me out at a club, restaurant etc---and their mouths DROPPING open from how slim and trim I looked. 50 POUNDS weight LOSS is NOTICEABLE isn't it? Or do guys even notice when a girl is overweight in the first place?
Lil Kil---I would suggest finding the root stem of WHY you're eating. I have yo-yo back and forth with my weight for 5 years!! And I am just realizing that---food was just a way for me to avoid dealing with other issues I have. YOu must dig deeper hun, or you will continue in that cycle. Trust me---it's never about the food.
noshayma---YOu hit the nail on the head. Now, though I can be a jerk---I wa snever really mean to guys I use to date. But my confidence did deflate GREATLY as I packed on more and more pounds. So, I do know that I am losing weight to be healthy AND so I can gain back my self-esteem. They go hand in hand. I was not meant to be a 'big girl' and I won't settle in that excuse. So, that's why I am determined to lose the weight to satisfy myself first and foremost.
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- noshaymatallLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Yes we notice. 50 pounds is very noticeable. Yes we do notice when girls are overweight. Now for the other side of the coin. We don't care. Contrary to popular opinion, we don't date or break up because of a girl's weight. WE date because you're nice to us. We leave because you aren't. We date because you're confident. We leave when you become too needy. We see that you lost the weight. We don't care because we see that you want to hurt us or get even with us in some way instead of just being happy that you're healthy. Stop being mean and vengeful and you won't have so many ex's to shock.
- .Lv 71 decade ago
Hang in there and do it (for you)!
I topped out at 230 many years ago (I'm 5'6") and it was a great feeling to get down in the 130s. I don't care about past lovers, but it definitely does boost ones confidence and thus the dating offers. ☺
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- HildaLv 55 years ago
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