I finally made contact with an old intimate male friend after 1 year through email.?

Don't meet him, his intentions are not honorable.

He told you he wanted to start or re-start a business "idea" from when you were together, which he can still do on his own or his wife can do it with him. He told *you* so he could reel you in to his agenda.

Stay away, you did awesome by not falling into the "come to the baby shower" event, because then he would have tried to get you to agree to other things.

If he's married you shouldn't want anything but a friendship. He has a family now, both of you should respect that. Does his wife know what he want to do? If not then it's probably something on the level of an affair, if she knows than she's stupid because I would never let my husband go and work with one of his ex's. That's just drama waiting to happen.

he wants business / friendship b/c he invited you to the babyshower which is showing that he is taken and not interested in that way.

He is married....apparently he had closure...What he wants with you shouldn't matter....leave married men alone...PERIOD!

I think you should leave this MARRIED man alone.

He wants to have his cake and eat it...

He wants to use you honey..............run away!