Friendship help?

Last September me and my best friend of 6 years got in a bad argument which lead us not to talk any more, the thing is when we were arguing we said some mean things but what hurt me was she said her husband didn't want her hanging with me and i was a bad influence, I thought about it and we both do the same things go to work come home take care of our kids we are just alike, back in April last year she got married i didn't find out until July and then she told me not to tell anyone, she always had something bad to say about him like he did this and that and i would tell her to talk to him about it, so in my mind i felt she could do better, during the argument i told her she was stupid to marry someone she wasn't in love with, since she's been with this man she been angry, when she did come over my house she would tell him she's somewhere else which hurt my feelings, how can i fix our friendship i want things to go back, besides my husband i have no one to talk to what should i do