cheating during fisrt month of marriage?

marriage is not a game from where you can walkout any point of time so easily.

give him a chance. Sometime life brings us to two way road from where we have to decide what is right. He has played it wrong now you would be doing no different thing by leaving him. Be a big hearted human give him one chance as it seems from your talk that he is genuine. he didnt want to cheat you but perhaphs situation went out of control. it may have happened because of you because probably you were not that loveable to him or probably he didnt feel that comfortable that he could have opened his heart out or probably he was scared to loose you. Just love him the way you have ever done. just show it to the life that your relationship is really strong and to the god that you were nice enough.

Seems a bit too much for me. During his first month of his new marriage? He obviously has absolutely no respect for your marriage. I worrry he has no respect for you as well. If he can do this already, he doesn't have the will to be committed to someone. It's just a matter of time before he finds someone else and a new reason to sleep with them. He's going to save his butt, as are his friends. Her behavior has nothing to do with the decision he made when he chose to have sex with someone who wasn't his wife.

I'm wondering how you found out? Was it her, him or did you figure it out for yourself? I think whether he stepped up and confessed is what's important here. If he didn't say a word and was either going to keep this going or never tell you unless he got caught, it's says a lot about his character. I would see that as his making decisons about your life for you rather than recognizing your free will and right to choose what you live with or don't. good luck.

He's your husband & from all he's done to assure you so far, why not give him the benefit of the doubt. I do NOT advocate cheating, I had it done to me. But, he's shown you every sign he can to show you he made a mistake. Can't you find it in your heart to at least give him a chance? You say you love him. Why don't you take a chance on really being happy & not throwing it away because of one mistake. Don't throw away the love of your life. He says he loves you, realizes he made a mistake, the least you can do is give him a chance to prove his love for you. Don't rush into something you'll regret. You'll no doubt never forget, but as time goes by it has a way of healing. At least you'll know in your mind you truly gave your marriage a chance. True love can do miracles. IF you leave, you'll regret never giving your love a try. You CAN learn to trust again. I've proven it. Maybe a councelor might be a good idea to get at the root of it. All the best to you...

Why should you trust someone who would do such a hurtful thing? It takes time to re-build trust, let him know that. 15 days is a relatively short time. Use some more time wisely. Even if it means you live somewhere else and let him "court" you again while you both go to couples counseling. And, OH YES, as someone else answered, both of you need to be tested for STD's, whether or not he says he used a condom. You have every right to be cautious. Your husband has no impulse control and he hurt you. Take your time, and go get professional help - just in case he "looses it" again!

Before you ask the question I've got a couple of questions

1. Did your husband say he's madly in love with you?

2. Who's ruling your life you, your husband or his friends?

3. I've never known annoyance o be a turn on in a woman, in fact I've many encounters with women who were after me and their annoyance didn't get the best of me.

4. Are you in a position to move on in your marriage without continuously blaming him.

5. When you look at him in bed whose face you see, his face as your husband or an adulterer.

Your decision will determine your future

Its your call, but I'd say if he is really sorry then he has a lot to make up for. I'd say counseling would be a good start because that isn't right, but from experience if they do it once they will do it again. Any woman deserves better than that. I recommend going home because he knew what he was doing when he did it. I hope this helps.

He cheated after one month of marriage? That's bad, he sounds like a liar to!! ask yourself this, if this girl didn't turn out to be a stalker would he have continued to cheat? you need to go to therapy with him because what he did was so disrespectful in the worst way...

Why does his friend want you to stay that bad??

Get on the plane and go back home. This marriage is over before it could really begin. Best of luck to ya in the future!

i dont know yup i will never trust my boyfriend again if he does that to me but i'm pretty sure he loves you you should stay w/ him if you love him back and i know it is eassy to forgive than to forget but i dont think he bout to do it again =) you should watch the movie the last kiss =)

i can't understand what your saying you cheated on your husband or he cheated on you or what I would say if he cheated on you dump him and the stalker remark is just bull crap he probably is still seeing her