What should I do about my ex and my bday plans?

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Last year I dated this guy for a while, and fell head over heals for him. I live about an hour and a half away from him, and he and I work different hours so it was really difficult for us to see one and other, so we ended things. Its been a year and he emailed me out of the blue "just to see how I'm doing" and now he is asking me to come see him, and spend my birthday with him. He and i have both dated since our breakup but I have never cared about anyone like I did him. I really care about him and miss him, but i dont think i can let him break my heart again. I dont know what his intentions were on emailing me again after a year, and he knew how bad he hurt me. SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?

broken angel · Accepted Answer

How did he break your heart if the break-up was due to you both working different hours and living in different areas?  Tell him to come and see you if he wants to spend time with you that badly.  Why should you go out of your way because he wants to see you, plus, it's your birthday...not his.

truefirstedition · Answer

You already know what to do - don't get involved with him again. Nothing about your situation has changed. You still live far apart, it will still be difficult to see each other. Just because the feelings haven't completely faded doesn't mean he's a good match for you.

Unless something in the situation has changed to the point where you think everything will work out, don't put yourself through this again.

A W · Answer

Come right out and ask him.  Dont beat around the bush.  Explain to him that you have moved on and have dated since your break up so you are wondering what his motives are.

Life is too short to play games....just be straightforward.

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