My boyfriend is awesome and I love him to death but sometimes I don't understand him.?

My boyfriend (now husband) was the same way when we were dating. It used to really bother me, but as time goes by, you just accept that that is the way they are, and if you want to spend your life with him, you deal with it. Now, if his mood swings turn into a violent streak or something like that, you need to nip that in the bud before you go any further, but if his moodiness is more like being mopey for no reason, just ride it out, and do what you can to spoil him during that time and make him feel better. Good luck!

A lot of guys are like that.

When he's like that I suggest you give him a little bit of space. There is nothing more annoying than someone clinging on to you when you're upset and you want to be left alone.

You can always try talking to him about it but if he doesn't want to I suggest you leave it alone and be patient with him.

He needs his time alone. I'm a bit wishy-washy about this book because it's so stereotypical, but you should give "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" a read. Seriously. Your guy sounds like he's retreating to his "cave", and the book is actually insightful about why and how you shouldn't take it personally.

oh wow. it sounds like he is kinda bi-polar or something. I guess just kind of get through it with a smile and then just act normal again. You cant make a big deal out of it cause it might ruin your relationship. But maye you should confront him about it if it becomes like a huge problem.

it seems like he may still be trying to get over the fact of what happened, notice the time when he gets like that (was it around the time you hurt him) he may just be thinking sometimes about whatever or maybe he just wants time to himself, this is whey communication is KEY, whenever he is in a good mood agian just ask him why he gets into certian moods???

Honey, non of will ever understand a man... Im sure he just probably needs a lil alone time.. If this is so, then he is not ready for marriage anytime soon unitl he gets over it..

the way you wrote that makes it sound like it's more serious than it probably is. sounds like a pretty common situation. give him some space, keep your own.

jus talk 2 him, c wats bothering him

it's meant to confuse you. if u don't like that feeling, then do like me, and just don't date.

guys are weird, dont worry about it!

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