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Go get a new hobby!

I'm telling you, when we guys see that our girl is having a great time without us, we'd go nuts about it and beg for a comeback. Try it.

Just remember, don't get close to boys too much or he'll just see you as a ***** and think you just needed a new BF. Bad move! It might work sometimes but in the end, he'll just go back with what you did and he'll never look at you the same way again.

If all else fails, then the guy has new ground to conquer and you're not in the plans. Sorry, but it's a fact of life.

By experience. So there!

It seems that you and your bf need to just take the time to really talk to each other and find out how you feel. I can't really tell if you are actually seeing/dating each other or if you are still apart.

Just going by what you said, it sounds like you are not spending any time together. Relationships take a great deal of work and effort. Do you still like this guy? If not, then just tell him and move on to the next relationship. If you do still like him, then ask him if he still likes you. Once you know, the two of you can decide whether to continue your relationship.

Please remember that if you decide to break-up, it does not reflect badly on either of you. You have simply grown in different directions and have the opportunity to find someone else. You will probably date many guys in your life. The important thing is to be open to relationships and to be honest about your feelings both with yourself and with the other person. You don't have to do anything you do not want to do or prove anything to anyone. I wish you the best.

End it...he is controlling. You need to tell him that he has early signs of controlling behavior and that you dont want to be the type of girl who gets use to being treated like that.

My husband can be controlling, and it sucks because he WONT change, he is old enough to where he is set in his ways. So I am stuck. but YOU are young and YOU can decide that you wont be controlled like that.

When I guy is controlling like that, a girl is STUPID to stick around. WHY?? Because "allowing abuse is a LEARNED behavior". Same w/ control. If you teach yourself that his behavior is okay...ignoring, controlling, talking about you, etc...he will get worse and worse.

Just end it now before you waste any more emotions. You have a boy friend right now just to say that you have a boy friend. Same with him.

Your boyfriend is suppose to be your best friend. Break it off, and be single!! FREEDOM! Focus on making lots of friends and hanging out w/ your friends this summer. New boys are coming soon!

I think you should just be friends for now. Maybe in the long run you guys will go out again and he will realize how much he misses you!!

no because he dont seem like he cares why would he say he never told his friend that and tell his loser friend why is he lieing like that...and if a guy doesnt even pay you any attention thats because he doesnt care or even like you he isnt interested so you need to let it go and move on...his loss!!!

Yeah if u really like him try to get him bak but if u dnt care just 4 get bout it

talk to him tell him your fears and thoughts if he doesnt respond let it it go before 4months become 4 years of the same thing

good I find cat what you must finish with him you are still young and I am sure what has a similar hill of your coffee with milk then lets the line walk

End it - your boyfriend just sounds too ambivalent and wishy-washy.

Well, how do u FEEL about him? Do u love him or not? If u love him, u have to work it out. lol