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Kelly P asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

ok i am in the 5 grade and was bullied the 2 used2 b mi fend now she is turnig every1 against me iam alone?

ok i am in the 5 grade and was bullied the 2 used2 b mi fend now she is turnig every1 against me iam alone i cry at night (and sometimes get teary eyed in skool) i cant eat or sleep....

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Bullying is very damaging to kids any age.

    My brother was bullied when he was in middle school.

    I would talk to your parents and your teachers or school administrators. They can help you find out why you are being bullied and to help it stop. They have the authority to talk to those kids' parents and to also keep an eye on you and them in school to make sure you're safe and that those kids leave you alone.

    Whatever you do, don't retaliate against them.

    Try to get a little exercise daily to blow off some steam and help reduce your stress. Make sure you're still studying for tests and doing your homework.

    If you talk to your parents, there is nothing wrong with you if you ask to start seeing a therapist.

    I'm almost 22 and I'm seeing a therapist. There's nothing wrong with it.

    Good luck!

  • i completely know what you're going through, when i was your age, i was bullied too and it made school hell. What you'll soon realise is, that at your age, people are really immature, especially when it comes to girls, they can be really bitchy at that age, and they single poeple out and pick on them for no reason. Don't keep what you're feeling to yourself, talk to your parents, tell your teacher or anyone at your school who may be able to help. Most importantly don't feel alone, or that its your fault you;re being bullied, because most of the time, bullies are just trying to make up for something thats missing in their lives. Try not to show that they're getting to you, and also, i would put those so called friends behind you, cuz they dont seem like real friends to me! Hope this helps!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Aww sweet heart im sorry! What you can do is try and go up to the young girls and ask them why are you treating you like this. Something has happened that you don't know about that has caused them not to be your friend. Don't allow them to see that they are hurting you, go to school everyday with a smile on your face and your head up. When you get home don't cry, get on your knees and pray to Jesus. Let him know that you want them to stop bulling you and to place new people in your life that will be better friends. Jesus all ways hears our cries and never wants us to feel bad. Do this everyday and believe that Jesus will do this and watch you will see a change.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Im sorry to hear you are so miserable. I was never really bullied much. I guess try not to worry about them. Why do you care so much what your old friends and other kids think? How are they any better than you? You can't answer that because there not. Just be as friendly as you can and if they don't like it forget them. Your better than all of them. Just remember that. Good Luck. If that won't work I myself would just kick there asses. If you can't fight, try learning. Bullying only goes so far. Then you gotta fight back

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  • 1 decade ago

    see your guidance counselor, teacher, principal, anyone who can help. get and keep real friends, who are kind - if you can find them. they're hard to find. keep away from people who are mean. they're everywhere. unfortunately it's just a part of life. try not to think about anything mean people do. people are mean just because they feel bad about themselves. feel sorry for them, and move on. you're not alone. i'm sure you have friends, family, teachers, etc. who can help. maybe a counselor, minister, preacher, someone like that you can talk to. its important that you try your best not to focus on the negative, but to focus on the positive. you have many blessings in your life, be grateful for them. focus on yourself, your health, happiness, schoolwork, exercise, focus on things that make you happy. daily exercise can do a lot to improve your mental health. stay strong.

  • 1 decade ago

    ok, sounds like these ppl r NOT ur friends... seriously... get some new friends....

    eating is quite important, as is sleep.... these ppl aint worth hurting urself over.... SMILE! :) Life goes on... I hope that u find new friends very soon.... ones that like u 4 who u r... :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do not cry. They are your friends? I don't think so.

    Hope this helps.

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