Need advice regarding fiancee of a long time.?

I think it's his job, the cancer, general overall unhappiness, etc. If I were in your shoes, I would try to stay as far away from him as I could for a while, to give both of you a break...this TOO shall pass, and things will get back to normal. Good Luck!!

My husband and I approach everything as a team something bad happens to him it has happened to me too… and we approach the problem together.

In a relationship approaching marriage everything should be handled together. Good and bad. No one should be holding things over your head like past help.

BUT…. Is their any reason you are not working now??? And how long have you been out of work….Even if you took a job in retail or in the service industry you would have a little money any your fiancé would see that you are trying to contribute. Since he is sick maybe you should start working to take some pressure off.

After 8 year of marriage I can give you this advice.. You will NEVER know what is going on in someone’s head…you have to ask him you’re self. Try talking to him in a very compassionate way express your concerns for his well being and how he is making you feel.

If you have been treated like this for a long time (even before he got sick) and there is no improvement you should really start making your own money and STOP being dependent on him.

I truly wish you the best of luck!

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