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is he just using me for a booty call?

so i have this friend that i've been sleeping with and whenever he wants to see me we just end up sleeping together we never really go out and have a good time we just jump right into bed but the other day he called me baby (and this is the first time he has ever called me that) so do you think he is just using me for a booty call if he doesn't try to take me out and do things besides just jump into bed with me?

Update:

he never has time for me on the weekends and his work schedule is sunday through thursday so i'm wondering if he has a girl friend and i am his someone on the side

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Mistress Alina...

    I must say he is... someone like myself who is very discreet with the women I go out with I make sure we go out also... to coffee, have a drink, lunch... maybe not in a place i would normally visit... but other more discreet locations...

    so.. come out to california and me my domme. and let me take you out....

  • 4 years ago

    would not particularly count selection what it ability now that he's looking you to spend the night instead of shooing you out of the door suitable after. i think of the question is do you actual must be in a relationship with a guy who purely makes use of you for a booty call? who knows what proportion women folk he can call to have intercourse with distinctly when you consider which you broke up final year. i think of you ought to offer different men who're greater effectual than this guy which you're pining for to handle you greater effectual. far greater effectual for purely a booty call interior the 1st place. it particularly is going to be annoying yet quickly when you would be much greater effectual and way happier with a guy who treats you with admire and can be have breakfast, lunch and dinner after the booty.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes. And if you like this guy, tell him that. Before or after jumping in bed tell him your hungry, and want to go out. Tell him exactly what you asked in your question. If he continues this, he probably does. If you never talk, he just likes you for that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, you screwed up. There was no work involved with getting with you. That makes you seem easy. Men like easy women, but they don't want a relationship with someone who gives it up so readily. This is why you shouldn't have sex outside of a committed relationship. No one wants the reputation of being easy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    a man will treat you how you let him treat you

    if you let him just jump in the bed without going out and spending time with you then he will

    you should tell him you want more than just *** from

    see how he acts after that then you will know

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, but it sounds like you are using him as one too

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    definetly girl! if he wasnt he wud b intrested in getting to know YOU and finding out what u like etc!

  • 1 decade ago

    you ask him everything you did in your ? on yahoo if he changes the subject then yes if he talks to you then maybe he is

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I believe you have analyzed the situation correctly...

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