I let my "best" friend of 30 years move in 3 yrs ago until she got her disability.She totaled a car, stoled

Are you expecting back payment for the past three years? If you're only expecting payment from here forward you are not wrong. She is trying to guilt you and use your 'friendship' as leverage. If she was really your friend she'd understand that it costs you money to have someone extra to pay for.

Bottom line is (and it's sad) that one time you USED to have a friend, now she's all about herself and is using you.

Do what you have to do and try to not feel guilty.

Girl, don't you know that there are 2 main things that you don't do with your friends, ask them to help you move and let them move in with you! lol

I'm guessing with the wrecked car and the items missing, you have had more than a little drama around your house??

Does your friend do anything in return for her rent such as babysit, clean, yata yata......

That would be the only way that i would think that she would have a right to be upset. If she has recieved her SSI now, then she should have plenty of money with the back pay, not only to pitch in while she is staying there and also to make up for "lost or stolen" items, but to also go get a place of her own.

Some people no matter what you do for them it really isn't enough. I had to learn that the hard way and with quite a few people and I gotta tell ya, it hurts, but all you can do is be the good person that you are and were by letting her stay with you and move on. If she thinks that you are a bad person then in my opinion she should just go ahead and move!

Good Luck!

Hi, You know there are certain things that happen between people that can not be forgotten by all involved.This is one of them.I would say you will have to ask these friend`s to find another place to live.This problem will always be there, in your face.All involved will be better off separated from each other.Good Luck.

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