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I was hurt so I decided to ignore the source of the pain completely. Then he talked to me and I was mean. Help

I have a friend. Let's call him Dan. Anyways, Dan and I were fairly decent friends. I don't really have that many good friends. I guess I have somewhat of a trust issue. I don't let that many people too close. I know tons of people, but I wouldn't consider a bunch of them to be my good friend. I really trully considered him a good friend. Back to the story. He got a new girlfriend and we stopped talking as much, which is totally understandable. New girlfriend...heck, he needs to spend more time talking to her then me. I wasn't upset or jealous in the least, I was fine with just talking to him ocassionally. Actually, it was easier then talking every day. But then I found out that he was moving across the country and hadn't told me. So my feelings were really hurt. I mean, it's not like we hang out all of the time or anything. It was just the fact that he didn't feel inclined to tell me. So I ignored him for a week or so. Then the other day he started talking to me over AIM.

Update:

My other friend told him that I was upset with him for not telling me that he was moving so he told me "hey...im moving" and I got really really mad. When I get hurt I have the tendency to get angry instead of cry. So I got really angry. And I've been really stressed about a lot of things lately. This was just the icing on the cake. So I got mad and said a few things to him that were horribly awful. I feel really bad for overreacting like that. Like I said, we hardly every see eachother as it is. It was just the fact that he didn't tell me that hurt me. I said sorry and he said it's fine then I had to go. But I want to tell him why I was so upset. Is that a good idea to let him know I am sincerely sorry instead of just saying it (because I really hurt him) because it's polite? Or is it searching for self gratification to make myself feel better? What should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    nothing wrong with wanting to let him know you are sincerely sorry

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    1 decade ago

    tell him why u was upset!

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