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Safest Way To Get Rid Of My Puppy?
For certain reasons, my mother has decided that we have to get rid of our one year old kelpie X border collie.
She is such a beautiful dog, very very friendly. But she barks a lot and we don't have the time to train her. She needs constant love and attention. But we all have school and work.
But anyway. Since we have to get rid of her, I want to do it safely. To ensure that she has a wonderful new home because I really love my dog, and definitely don't want her to go to a bad home, and suffer any cruelty or anything.
How can I make sure she will have a safe loving home?
Apart from giving her to a friend, what can I do?
I also don't want her to go to a pound, in case she doesn't get re-homed and ends up being killed. Which I don't want at all!
Is giving her away 'free to good home' safe?
I don't think so, but I don't know much about this...
Is there anyway I can tell whether people will look after her properly and love her and everything?
Please please help me! =[
Texas Red - thanks for the advice, but I live in Australia. So that is probably a bit too far.
Having to give my dog away is killing me, I just want her to be safe, and I know I'll always worry about her... if she's being fed and given water...treated fairly etc., so I just need that reassurance.
Jaz - your answer was inappropriate.
I asked how I can get her a loving home, I didn't need a lecture. I am worried sick without your harsh words, so I do not appreciate them. To everyone else - please just answer my question, and advise me on what to do.
I want to take the time to screen potential adopters and be 100% sure on this decision because my dog is very much loved and I will not just give her to anyone.
16 Answers
- mama woofLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Jennifer's answer is actually the best. The dog has to learn to stop barking. If it doesn't, that will eventually cost its life. If you won't debark, what about a bark collar? Would that help Mom want to keep her?
If you absolutely have to give her away, run the free ad in the paper. It is the best way to give her a chance at life. I wouldn't take a risk on a shelter.
I am sorry you have to loose your dog. She really needs a farm to live on.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Awww what's wrong with his breath? Dogs are supposed to have bad breath - they're renowned for it! And I always think that puppy breath smells of coffee. But since you ask... I would say the best thing to do is to get into the habit of cleaning your dogs teeth while he's still young if you're not already doing so. Start just by rubbing a little of the doggy toothpaste onto his gums for a few days until he gets used to the taste, then progress to a finger toothbrush, then if he lets you, use a proper doggy toothbrush. There are loads of treats you can get to keep your dogs teeth clean aswell (because dirty teeth are the main cause of bad breath). A particular favourite of my dog are pedigree dentastix although loads of brands are available in supermarkets and pet stores. I'm not sure the chews actually work but my dog adores the taste anyway, so they're worth the money even just as a treat. Other natural chews may be effective at removing plaque from your dog's teeth, although I'd steer clear of bones, especially with a puppy because sharp fragments may rupture your pups intestines. You get natural rawhide chews with mint/herb flavours though and these might be effective at disguising any doggy breath. If the smells really bad then i would advise a trip to see the vet because your dog might have an infected tooth or bad tummy or something that's causing a nasty smell to come from his mouth. Good luck. Hope this helps a bit.
- 1 decade ago
Sorry, but my answer was very appropriate. You just did not want to hear it but many people thinking of getting a dog should think about what I said. It is always the dog that looses.
Ok, so this is not an answer that makes it easier for this family to find a home for their dog but this is a perfect example of why rescue groups screen so carefully and turn people down. Of course, people just do not understand when they are turned down.
Not many people should have a border collie mix. They are wonderful dogs but they need attention and activity---they need a job. They end up in shelters so often because of the work and time involved when they are added to a family.
I am sorry but not having the time to train her is not an excuse. Everyone should have known that she needed constant love and attention and everyone knew they had work and school.
Dogs are not stuffed animals that will sit in a corner and be good. They are living/breathing beings who deserve the love and commitment that was made to them when you adopted them.
Unfortunately, this dog is probably doomed to go from home to home to home because this family did not research this breed before they got her nor did they train her after they got her. She will probably end up in a cold shelter and will probably be gassed or injected.
Sorry if this is harsh but I really get sick of the excuses and this is the reality.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Your best bet is to put an ad in the paper or online and actually interview the people that inquire about your dog. If none want her, here's what you can do... Go to a shelter and tell her you are going to get rid of her. Alot of times you can keep the dog at your own house, they pay for the food, meds (if any), leash, toys, everything... Then someone can still adopt her, but she'll stay at your house. Sometimes not the best people go to shelters to get dogs, but this will be a really good way to depart from your dog. Good luck.
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- Penny PLv 51 decade ago
don't give her "free to a good home" If you don't have time to advertise, and interview potential new families for her, then you should take her to a rescue or pound. If you are really afraid of the dog pound, why not see if you can find a border collie rescue in your area? I know you said she is a mix, but I have seen alot of rescues take mixes- and there seems to be alot of bordercollie rescues out there, simply because they are such energetic dogs. (people buy them, then can't handle them. Byt he way, your dog probably barks out of boredom, needs more exercise, and is looking for attention by barking) I got my border collie that way, he was already a year old. I look at rescues all the time on-line, I wouldn't get a dog from any other place. Try the rescue.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
A "free home" ad is a big neon sign for bad people, trust me. I've heard of dogs being given to great families only to wind up in dog fights or sent off for medical experiements. I don't want to freak you out by saying that, but the best thing you can do (if you don't know of any reliable friends or family members) is take her to a no-kill animal shelter.
If you aren't sure which one is a no-kill shelter, call the ones in your town and ask. By law, they cannot lie, so don't think you're being tricked.
If there aren't any in your town, check the next town over.
Or check for breed rescues.
With all of the above options, your girl will find a good home. She won't be euthanized, and the people at the shelter/rescue do background, vet, and home checks, along with getting referance...so, it's ensured.
I'm sorry you have to get rid of her. Good luck with finding a place. A little searching around online will find you plenty of options.
- 1 decade ago
Put an ad in the paper or online, but "free to good home" is NOT a good idea. People value what they have to pay for more than what is freely given for the most part. Meet with the people that respond to your ad, mention in your ad that you will be screening potential adopters so they know you're serious about giving your dog a good home.
- BaileyLv 61 decade ago
Another suggestion is call or go to your vet or the vets in the phone book or in your area. Ask if you can put notes in their office or maybe they can help you find a good home. I am worried about my cat. If i have to go into the hospital or something else happens to me. I don't know what i would do. He means so much to me. So it is hard to find a GOOD home. It takes time to try. Good Luck
- 1 decade ago
SOMETIMES PEOPLE CAN BE SO CRITICAL ABOUT HAVING TO GIVE DOGS AWAY, BUT I PERSONALLY APPLAUD YOU FOR CARING ENOUGH TO FIND IT A GREAT HOME AND NOT JUST DUMPING IT AT A SHELTER. ID SCREEN ALL POTENTIAL PEOPLE WHO ARE INTERESTED, MAKE THE PEOPLE SHOW YOUR THEIR HOME AND LOOK AT THE CONDITIONS AND LIVING AREAS OF THE DOGS THEY HAVE (IF ANY) AND MAKE THEM AGREE TO LET YOU SEE THE DOG. ID ALSO MAKE THEM SIGN A CONTRACT. GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU CAN FIND YOUR DOG A WONDERFUL HOME!!