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my son is 13 and has a girlfriend of about 5 months?

they usually group date or are with her mom. but i caught them making out the other day (just kissing hugging) but they were in her moms van right behind her mom while she was on the phone. i had a nice long talk with him about sex and being ready and everything and he is very respectful of girls thank god. but i am still worried. if her mom wasn't aware of what they were doing in her van, with her right there what else could happen!! any comments, ideas?

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i am worried because they were right out in the open what would they do if they had privacy ? they want to be alone but are not allowed except for a few times. he also spends hours and hours with her everyday. i am just concerned that he is dependent on her or addicted might be a better word. i think parents that are not involved and concered about this stuff may have more trouble.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    dont freak out. kissing and huggin doesn't mean that they re going to have sex. if u trust ur son, i m sure that hes gonna make the right decision

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont be worried because I doubt he would be sexually active at 13 nor will he be anytime soon

  • 1 decade ago

    I believe he is fine. 13 year olds make out, believe me, I did at that age. As long as you talked to him, he will hopefully be fine.

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