I have been married for a few years, and I recently ran into my ex from 10 years ago, I want to be with him?

Be a woman and tell your husband, you can't go out on a date with another man when you are married! If you are unhappy get a divorce, don't be a slut about it.

Don't do it. If you think you're unhappy now, wait until you're caught in the middle....or just caught.

Our cousin was in a similar predicament a few months ago. She left her husband of seven years and two children - a boy of four and one that is two - for a "hot" guy that she had a crush on. It was thrilling, exciting, and fun for about a whole two weeks.

Then everything hit the fan. Her children started having tantrums and health issues because she had hurt them so badly; the wronged jealous husband became a living nightmare in the way he treated her....and everyone, including her own parents, were on HIS side because what she did was so wrong. Now she is WAY more miserable than she ever was in the marriage.

Oh yeah, and the hot boyfriend got tired of the heat and moved on to someone else. She threw it all away for nothing.

When you took those marriage vows, you were promising to weather the tough times as well as the good times. Unless this husband is beating you or screwing around on you the way you plan to do with him, then I would suggest you tell this other fella you are already committed to a marriage. Then you grow up, go home, and sit down to work things out with the one you promised to love "till death do you part".

Unless the husband is being cruel and your life is in danger...then that's a whole other issue.

Please don't do this. I can argue for your husband, against the boyfriend - whatever. But the bottom line is this: The one who stands to be the most hurt and the most rejected and the most looked down upon is YOU. Be your own best friend and cancel the date.

And don't let him call you back!

I would take it slow. Don't make any rash decisions. If you are unhappy with your marriage do some soul searching and weigh the pros on cons of your relationship. Hopefully this will help you determine if you still want to continue your relationship with your husband.

In the meantime, I'd go ahead and hang out with your ex but you should make sure that a couple "dates" with your ex doesn't control the outcome of your marriage. Lust for someone can be very persuasive and can mean big problems for when considering a big decison, like divorce.

However, if you and your ex really see a future with each other and you are truly unhappy with your marriage then you should get divorced and pursue a new relationship. Besides, you only live once and should make the best out of your time, not comprimise to make the best out of someone elses!

Do what's right! You are MARRIED!! I don't think people understand the meaning of marriage anymore. Why did you even get married if you weren't ready to be committed to one person? Being unhappy in your marriage doesn't give you the right to go and cheat on your husband. And if your ex were all that great, he would not want to be with a woman who is already taken. You and your husband need to figure out ways to make things better in your marriage. No marriage is perfect. It takes a lot of work to make a marriage work. If you must, see a marriage counselor. They will have lots of tips and advice on improving your relationship.

You need to stay faithful to your husband or you will end up in a lot of trouble.

However I can tell that you can't do that on your own. I would tell someone you trust to hold you accountable, and come clean.

And don't use the excuse that your marriage isn't doing well. What God unites should not be ununited. However if you don't believe in all of that then I will say this. If you cheat on your husband it will start a chain reaction that will cause you a lot of pain.

It sounds like you have already made up your mind. Do you want someone to tell you it is okay and not to worry about it or do you want someone to tell you that you are making a huge mistake? I can tell that you can that it will make your unhappy marriage even more unhappy. You also have to understand that nothing changes a relationship like cheating. It changes people. There are few things more damaging.

Don't go, because once you make that move, it will make you feel guilty when you are around your husband. Don't leave sure for unsure, you ex might have changed, but, he is not letting on.

Sometimes, an ex will try to break you up, because they don't want to see you happy. When you have left the person you are with, they too decide that they don't want to stay in the relationship either.

One lie will only lead to another lie.

The past is the past . There is a reason his your X . Try to remember the good times you had with your husband . Everyone seems to be remembering the bad and say there is no good times . Well guess what there had to be for you to marry him , Unless he is been abusive . Only you know the truth.

Remember why he was your EX ? We don't call them an Ex just for any reason. Just remember another thing If your man was to see also and ex girl of his and he did what you are planning on doing let me know how you would feel about it.

Classic case. There is a reason that he is your ex, you are comfortable with your husband and about to fool around and make a BIG mistake thinking that the grass might be greener.