I need some advice pls..........?

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I have been friends with this guy for almost four years. Over the last two years we have gotten really close.
Up until sunday we never even as much as kissed each other.
Now, i am not the type of person to be into men with children. But over the years i grew to love him dearly and when i found out that another girl was pregnant fro him, (not his gf) i was annoyed but saw it as an oppertunity for us to be together since he decided to break up with his gf. We actually got closer. We got intimate on Sunday and i am a bit worried that i was more into chasing him than actually being with him. I was okay, until he told me that there is a possibility that another girl is pregnant fro him. Now i am really upset and i don't know why. Further more i am wondering whether or not i should continue to be around him or should i move on.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Move on or back off until you are sure.

Redhead with love · Answer

It sounds like you aren't the only one who enjoyed the chase with him. He sounds like a dog. If he is cheating on his girlfriend and getting somone else pregnant than there's a possibility he'll do it to you. I'm pretty sure you deserve better than that. You should move on. SOmetimes a guy only wants a girl because of that chase once it's over he loses interest. DOes he sound like a guy worth winning, when he's barking up so many other's trees.

Ronwyn D · Answer

Stay friends with him. After all these years if it hasn't gone any further than what you are saying,  just be friends. He needs your support now. After 4 years I would say it is know more than friends.Get to know his girl friend you may enjoy her company. We all like to see friends happy. If the girl isn't your type definitely  see less of him. But wish him all the best, move on. This boy hasn't taken you serious. Hang on he  possibly has a child now. There is other males out there.

Anonymous · Answer

The guy sounds like he wants to plant his seed in as many different places as he can. If he's a good friend to you really than the best idea would be to just not pursue these romantic feelings. If you do pursue them, you are very likely to loose a friend, and if that's ok with you, make sure you wear protection!!!! You don't want to be just another one of those girls!!

Alisha · Answer

youre upset most likely because he really shouldnt be getting more and more girls pregnant and then break up with them. if you really like the guy you should stay around him, if you think that hes just going to be trouble then move on

Jon B · Answer

I think you should wait until you are sure because if you move on and the test is wrong he might not accept you back. But if the test is right, move on.

Earthangel · Answer

Just let him go b4 jus now u end up pregnant for him too...u deserve better, someone that actually cares for u...

Abby · Answer

Move on...once a cheater always a cheater unless you want to just stay friends then yea you should be there for him.

selinafriday · Answer

This guy sounds like a total ...... yeah. Find yourself someone who cares about you, and only you, because he obviously doesn't. Good luck.

Michael C · Answer

what would be the best is if you don't stay with him because if ya ll get together then he will end up cheating on you...

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