I just met this girl and she is confusing me help.?

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We just met a week ago but have seen eachother around the area before.

I'm turning 19 in June and she just turned 17 in April.

We met at a baseball game and we were texting back and forth and she came into visit me at my work two days later and then a few more times we met up just to say hey at the local hangout.

Then on thursday the first true date was at the gym we both go to and then back to her house and we were having a great time

and laying together and then she kissed me which was going amazing

So then the next day (friday) we went out to eat I paid.  Went out to a movie the ( she tried to pay but not credit accepted)

then saturday night was the killer

I am having a lot to drink and she was drinking with me and i began talking alot and complementing her alot i guess and she got upset and was like no stop saying nice things I am not ready for a relationship and she got the idea i was too 

she got of a relationship 2-3 months ago 

sorry for the length

Electronic Amish · Accepted Answer

She's honestly just scared/playing it safe. She obviously likes you and probably doesn't drink much, since you're both under-age, so I'm sure some of it was alcohol talking. Just keep hanging out and having a good time. Don't freak out over just one conversation on a night where you were drinking.

Give her a call and play it off.

thom3223 · Answer

You both were drinking and said a few things which made her uncomfortable. Perhaps you put some unneeded stress on a still developing relationship but it should be easily repaired with a smile and an apology. She'll respect the fact that your paying attention to her feelings so don't hide from an early(and sober) conversation with her.

stargirl · Answer

whats the question??? ooo i get it i think. like y does she hang out with you and kiss you if shes not ready for this??? prob  because she likes you she was just a little drunk so she wasnt in her right mind to tell you how she feels or something. just make sure that shes comfortable with the relationship=]and give her a reason for why you should be togetherrrr

Steph-O · Answer

it probably means that
she's not ready for a relationship

if you 19 im sure your out of high school already
and she's still in high school...
so maybe she likes you...but wants to keep her options open
with the boys at her school?
just an idea...since she is a senior and all she probably also has a lot on her mind....with college and life...

who knows teenage girls are so unpredictable!
i know...cause im one of them :D

jean/5/878 · Answer

She problemly just looking for a friend too talk with ,so slow down. dont try too be a b/f right now ,shes not over the other b/f yet. take care.

Anonymous · Answer

you were both having a lot to drink, there is your problem. it's either that, or this was on her mind while you two were talking the whole time and it just came out. either way, it was probably the alchohol talking.

Christine · Answer

I think she was probably just drunk. Have u tried to talk to her since then? If u have and she is still doesnt want to be in a relationship then she probably just reconsidered.

paulette · Answer

Tell her. When girls hear that it always makes them feel good and even if she doesn't feel the same way she won't stop talking to you. And if you tell her you have feelings for her, even if she doesn't have feelings right away..they might develop. its worth the risk.

Tommy · Answer

dude dont try 2 hard, it'll just scare her off.. just be cool and relax, dont try 2 impress her and tell her 2 many nice thing cuz then it'll all just lose meaning after a while

**k-a-r-i-n-a** · Answer

dont try to push it and talk to her a lot she prob doesnt wanna get into a relationship yet

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