Relationship after cheating?

confessing infidelity or cheating is a selfish move. it will only rectify your guilt. it will not help your boyfriend to know you cheated on him.

I have in past relationships and trust me eventually it will come out and most likely when you are least expecting it and I'm sorry I know you probably think you care about the person your with but if you really did you would never cheat on them and if you did yes you would be so guilt ridden that you would have to tell them so..I think you need to either tell them and take whatever punishment comes your way or move on.

No but I would hope that it would eat the guilty party up inside forever.

That's horrible. To think that a spouse couldn't fess up just out of general respect for the other person/concern.

If you were to cheat on someone and never tell them...you may have doomed them by not telling them anything. What if this other person you were with had some type of disease or something?! Wouldn't you want to have the right to know?!

SICK

I hate liars more than I hate someone who would have the gonads to come up, tell me the truth or better yet before ANYTHING happened that they weren't interested anymore and they wanted out!

This world has become so greedy, no compassion even between to lovers/in marriage...whatever.

sick...

that sucks. now you'll always have to wonder about what if he finds out like 20 years from now and you guys are married. could ruin everything for you because you're whole relationship from this point on is based on a lie. And it's possible he could find out because what if the person you cheated on him with tells someone and somehow it gets back to your partner? in other words, you are in deep s h i t.....excuse my language. because at the moment you least expect it, he could find out

yes and the guilt does haunt you!

Yes i have. and guilt does sort of haunt you.

yea

nd it fell apart after, but yea i did feel bad cuz i knew if he would find out he would be hurt

more than likely it will come out and he will know. no matter if they know or not it will still hurt you too. if they know they will rememind you of it alot unless they can get over it.

shame on you.