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xealsisiht asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

This girl is suddenly ignoring Me?

Ok so over the past couple weeks I have become really good friends with (insert girls name here) and like we have been txting and talking on the phone like non-stop, and like as far as I know we are still going to a movie on Friday, but anyway, like 2 days ago all of a sudden she seemed to start becoming distant and kinda started to ignore my txts or like they would be like one word replys, and I've just decided to go along with it and wait, and yes I like her, and she has also begun to like me, she told me and i'm pretty sure she knows that I am starting to like her, but what I don't get is why is she suddenly ignoring me, the other day she said she was in a bad mood, t hat was the day before this started, but like I hope she is still intrested in me, I mean how can you go having a 5 hr phone conversation and other ones every day to suddenly ignoring someone...I'm just confused, and I asked her if she was mad at me and she No. but yea, I really like her so any advice would be nice!

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  • xK
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    Double check on Thursday or Friday to make sure you're still on for the movie, but until then, let her do her own thing. She may have issues at home or with school and may not have time to chat right now. And when you see her, ask her how she's doing and let her vent; and please, please act like you're interested. Just listen. Resist the urge to fix her problem for her.

  • me!
    1 decade ago

    Ok, it can be several things, from my experience........she could've found some dirt on you and if you have none then she is probably going through some personal things and needs her space until she's ready to talk to someone in that way. or the worst case would be she's found another guy she likes and isnt interested in you anymore, harsh but im sorry, for now just give her space, dont run her off! good luck

  • kimberlie
    5 years ago

    you could have. girls are very sesitive creatures. i think you should just talk to her, and see what's wrong, she'll hopefully appreciate the concern. and since she was keen on you from the beginning she definately wanted things to go furthur than just friends, and since that didn't happen, yeah you could have definately hurt her feelings. in anyway are you attracted to this girl? there's more to attraction than just physical appearance. could you have lead her to thinking that it could be more than just friends? if you did whoa you've definately hit hard ground here, it really upsets women the most when they think a guy might just have the slightest bit of feeling for them (when they have the biggest feelings for you) and then nothing happens, she made the first move buddy if you like this girl go for it. Girls don't like doing all the work.

  • Little Sure Shot
    1 decade ago

    Ask her if the movie is still on for Friday...if she doesnt give you a direct answer then blow off the "date" and do something else...when she figures out that the world doesnt revolve around her...she will start talking to you normally again...thats if you care to talk with her after that.

    Source(s): A womans point of view
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Haha, this is so funny! She's playing hard-to-get. Don't worry. She must really like you!!! Start to sort of ignore her also-- don't cut off communications, just wait and don't harass her, lol .You're doing fine. She started to "suddenly ignore you" bc/ she was afraid she would be too easy for you.

    Good luck!!

  • MsJ
    1 decade ago

    Do you know if she is talking to someone else? has she talked about problems at home,school? i would give her time. Wait till thursday and find out if you 2 are still going out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just give her some time and space, sometimes girls get realy annoyed realy fast. maybe something has come up and has put in her in the way she is now. just give her some time she will come around, and is she has turned on you and became a b****she never desereved you anways.

  • .x.o.x.o.
    1 decade ago

    maybe she just needs some time on her own, i wouldnt worry about it if i were you, just act normal towards her and you will find out soon whats up with her... good luck xx

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