If He or She Cheated on you, would you stay in the relationship?

If the relationship has deteriorated to this point it is no longer salvageable unless both parties are willing to believe in the marriage and build a stronger more trusting relationship even through all the hardships that could come their way by everything coming out into the open. If there is no honesty and trust, then there is no relationship.

Depends on the circumstance... did he cheat while we were on a break? Or were we doing just fine?

Since I don't like to argue, I probably would just leave and leave it up to him to figure it out... If he is really cheating, he doesn't deserve anymore of my time.

I have never cheated... it's just not something that I could bring myself to do. If I cheated, I would probably ask for a break and give myself some time to figure out why I felt I needed to betray him.

Yes, she cheated on me, approx 5 yr into our marriage. I would have never known if she hadn't have told me. But I still loved her, and she loved me. We went to counseling where I learned to forgive and she learned why she did it. We put our marriage back together stronger than it was before. I have never mentioned it since, and that was 35 yrs ago. I am so glad I did not leave her. I have had 35 more years with a truly wonderful woman.

Get up and run like your behind is catching fire! And, if you are the cheater, stop cheating right away. You know damn well that it is not honest to cheat. No one will respect you as a cheater. And eventually you will lose all your friends.

Possibly. It would depend on the circumstances. If it was in the past and I found out later then I might try to stay (for my daughter) provided we went to marriage counseling. If it was an ongoing affair then no, I wouldn't stay and yes I would confront him.

H3ll no I wouldnt stay in the relationship,no excuses!

I mean unless The Joker was going to kill me and my other half if they didnt sleep together,but for some odd reason,something tells me that's unlikley ^^

first of all i would never ever cheat on my hubby i love him too much, and secondly i would never take back a cheater if he cheats on me, once that trust is gone that's it, i wants no part of him again.My hubby knows that about me already too.

I would personally not!

He cheated on you! I would inform him! It was bad

hell no i wouldnt stay with him if he cheated on me...and i would never cheat so i wouldnt feel guilty

no...i tried that once and he ended up still cheating on me with the same girl and i found out about it when he got her pregnant...in my bedroom while i was at work. nononono