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how can i confront her?

i'm really worried about my friend.

she's been dating this guy, justin, for almost three months, and seems pretty crazy about him...

well, if you don't count the fact that she flirts with just about any guy close within her reach.

in fact, in gym one day, she was texting several boys flirty text messages, and when her phone would buzz, a girl would ask "who keeps texting you?"

and each time, it would be a different guy's name.

she keeps denying her feelings for all of them.

david is "just a friend".

jonathon is "like a brother".

clint is "too old for me".

when i ask her why she isn't talking to HER BOYFRIEND,

she just says "he's probably busy."

i don't really like the guy she's dating, but i can't help but feel bad for him, because he doesn't know about any of this.

i care a lot for my friend and her reputation.

how do i tell her she's getting herself into something bad without her getting angry with me...or denying it?!

help, before it gets worse!

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    It may make her mad, but you need to talk tio her honsetly.

    Just tell her you do not believe that "friends" stuff. And you want to know what is going on.

    If she admits to you theses guys are more than friends, then you need to have her tell Justin the truth.

    If she refuses, maybe you should tellJustin.

    I hope this helps!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    oh, wow! that is one tough situation. i think the only answer he is to confront her. of course she wont liike what you're saying/doing, but if you explain to her how its wrong, not fair to justin nor her. if she keeps doing this, she will have to reak up with justin before he breaks up with her. and show you're friend that you're here for her no matter what!

    goodluck!

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