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How can women make sex better for a guy?

I've looked this up online, but it seems most articles are trying to tell a guy how to make sex better for a woman...which is definitely important, since it takes more effort to satisfy us, but I am genuinely wanting to know, what can I do as a woman to make things exciting in bed for a guy? What would it take to make me be categorized as "A great lay"?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Asking him what he wants while having sex is simply sooooo erotic! Trust me!

    After that you know what to do!

    Additionally, I would also recommend you to get all audible in your moans and groans... during sex, it's a big turn on for guys to actually witness their girl go wild n ecstatic!

    Personally, I also love it when my girl talks dirrrty to me. I love it when she starts telling me her fantasies...ahem ahem...

    I also love it when she gives me a good grip while im poun***g her. Wouldnt want a partner who just laid there and did no work.

    Ofcourse, the most common and perhaps the best thing a girl could do for a guy is to give oral. Nothing can beat that! The best oral are the ones wherein mouth is used more than the hands. If you can learn to take it whole in ur mouth, he's a lucky lucky guy!

    I also love it when my girl starts licking on my neck, chest n hands while im over her... it's very sexual! Trust me!

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  • Elisa
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    (1) Have a good, open conversation with him about what he likes. Don't judge him. Don't go "ewwww!" It's a tender subject, one that makes a person very vulnerable. In order to give him what he likes, you need to know what it is and how he likes it done. Every guy is different. You need to know what and how to make your specific guy wild.

    (2) Once in a while, you make love to him. As in he is the center of your attention. What you want is to pleasure him. The otherway around being secondary.

    I just read a book. Look it up on Amazon. The title is something like "He comes next" and the author is Ian Kerner. It's not necessarily a techniques book. It's one more about how to make sex and sexuality for a man less mechanical and a lot more than just physically rubbing him until he has his, in 5 minutes flat.

  • Steven
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    The best thing you can do is basically is ask him what he wants. Every guy is different, for the most part, and have different tastes in bed. Some like you just bending over and taking it like the first poster said, others like it when you tell him what you want and take control. Others are somewhere in the middle or not in either one of those two choices.

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  • 1 decade ago

    haggismcgee,

    I have been reading some work froma relationship expert that goes into a lot of detail both for men and women about how to please their partners. He has written tons of books and has been a regular guest on Oprah helping people spice things up. Take a look at the one I recommend below and see if it can help you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him and see what he likes, if he is a good smart guy he'll tell you while you are doing it what he likes. But I would say being loud and making noises, not being afraid to try new things, dress up for him and be spontaneous. That's what makes a woman a good lay.

  • 1 decade ago

    Most women are dead fish in bed, they just lay there an moan. Women have this funny idea that because they are born with a vagina, that is their role and look no further. Do you move around in bed? Do you fight back when he holds you down by the wrist? How about yanking away when he really wants you and smile at him? Tease him, make him want you.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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    I don't think sex is what women fall in love with, there has to be more to it than that. Sex does release a hormone in women that makes them feel contented and closer to that person, but that's not love. If the relationship is a good one with great sex then I'm sure both parties stay happy and in love.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Lots or oral, learn to clamp, lose all the body hair, smile at the mention of sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to be willing to do any thing and everything he wants to do at the drop of a dime.Oral,Anal whatever it may be please him until he just cannot take it anymore.

    Learn how to try interesting positions, you can find some online here:

    http://101-sex-positions/

    Kegel exercises are gret too,Once you have your control of your body,you can control his as well.Do something to him that will blow his mind.He'll be braggin bout u in no time!lol

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