I don't like my best friends's boyfriend!?

There's nothing you can do about your friend's choice in boyfriend.

You've tried. So your conscience is clear.

But stay away from her when she's with him. Don't get caught up in that scene. Drugs eventually lead to destruction, in one way or another.

It seems that your friend is going to have to learn the hard way. And sometimes those are the best lessons learned.

I've been through a similar situation. To tell you the truth, there is not much you can do except for try to talk to her about it. It seems like she obviously doesn't believe what you think about him. Just let it continue for a while and accept the fact. But if anything that you know is seriously wrong is going on then please please do not hesitate to get help from an adult. However lame it may seem to ask a parent for help, you'll feel even worse if something bad happens to your friend.

For now, just try to play it cool. Don't interfere unless you have to. If she says she will never forgive you then I think there isn't really a point in trying to get her back because it's not at all your fault for caring about your friend.

When people are in a relationship, they are so focused on how much they 'love' them, that they don't want to listen to all the obvious bad points in them. I understand how you don't want your best friend to get hurt. But leave her to learn from her own mistakes. Don't make her angry now, just continue in the best friend role and you'll be the one whos there for her when things get tough with this guy :) x

Tell her you're sorry first and that you are only watching out for her because you care. Then tell her nicely that you really thinks this guy isn't good or at least convince her not to take drugs or smoke.

well, u kno im sort of in the same position..i hate my best friends boyfriend...nd i told her that....he is always wid her nd she doesnt spend time wid me anymore...now im starting to hate her.....she says her boyfriend is her everything, nd i dont understand how someone can b ur everything anyway...all she does is hang out wid him...

u kno if she says she wil never forgive u she most probably only blinded by "love".....cuz if u guys have been really close nd she always took ur opinion into count then its just because she is sooo in love that she doesnt listen to anyone...i think she has to realise for herself that that guy isnt good for ehr at all...

well mi mate had the same problem dating someone exactly like him and i told her the same thing and she got mad at me but the next day i went up 2 her and sed 2 her "im sorry for what i said yesterday about your boyfriend but if he makes you happy i suppose im happy aswell" and we were just friends agen and few days later she realised i was right about wat i sed and broke up with him he wasnt very happy but she broke up with him coz he tried 2 give her drugs but the more u nag on at ur m8 that he's not good enough for her coz that just makes her madder with u and want 2 stay with him more so just say that ur sorry and make sure she knows not 2 take drugs or smoke

Tell her you are sorry that you didn't mean to hurt her. But that she is your best friend and you just really dont want to see her hurt, and you dont want to see her get into drugs. She is young and things wont last for them. She will need you there when they break up.

well thats how teens theese days are desperate for love and sex. They are going to do what they want to. So dont even stress about it. I have the same feelings sometimes about boys myself. Perfectly normal, tell her to use protection.

I agree with you too. And with that lady on telling the moms.

hopefully she will calm down and see your side.

if shes really your best friend, she should understand that youre only looking out for her.

and i completely agree with you.

if she wants to get into that stuff, its her fault, and shes obviously losing out on a good friend.