ex best friend is pregnant, am i jealous?

find a really hot dress and book yourself a singles cruise. Go one the cruise and make sure you look the best you can look. Take tons of pics of you partying out and having a carefree- fun time ..... and then when you know she is good and preggo and then post the pictures somewhere you know she will run across them and i promise you you will not be the one who is jealous any more lol (ok that might not be the most mature way to deal with it but I am dealing with a friend who fiancee got between us and this hit close to home)

Maybe you are confused. Maybe, you think about your own life as IT COULD HAVE BEEN, something like: "I could be pregnant now, had my fiancee and I continued our relationship and been married... but SHE ruined that for us on account of the car situation." Either way, that girl is no longer your close friend. She showed her true identity with the car accident. You may feel that you will never totally get over losing your good friend, even years from now, unless you find an unconditional friend and a new love. Your ex- friend probably feels somewhat sad that she acted that way. Especially now, when she is in such a transition in her life, there is no one (a good friend like you were to her) to be there for her like in times past. Too bad for her. Live and learn and don't feel bad nor bitter. You will have happy days again, I am sure.

Are you jealous that she is unmarried and pregnant? what if she was happily married and pregnant, now thats cause for a little unmalicious envy. I really don't know what you expect to hear from this.

I guess you both should put things behind you, and don't let 9 years evaporate into thin air. Mend whatever differences you both have and be there for your friend.

Be careful. My very best friend, when I told her I was pregnant, said "I told you I wanted to have a baby first!"

These were the first words out of my best friend's mouth!

The zealously continued, and lead to an end of our friendship. It makes me sad, until this day, because she was such a good friend. She had no idea of the damage she would cause with her jealousy.

To date, we have talked occasionally, but are not friends as we were. She never acknowledged the pain she caused with her hurtful words. (Trust me there were plenty, beyond those mentioned.)

Why do you EVEN care about an ex-boyfriend or an ex-best friend. If they are "ex" move on yourself and have nothing to do with the whole situation (including being part of ANY ceremony that takes place.) You didn't say why there are "ex" but I can guess. Go about "your" business and ignore them even if they live so close. My response to that is, "Who cares?" If you "really do care", then let your conscience be your guide.

its ok girl, I had this really close friend and she was a really bad influence thus screwed me over, now she's happily married with a gorgeous baby and I have a long time boyfriend who doesn't even think about marriage much less a child. just learn to forgive and be happy that she's probably happy, one day you'll have a baby too you never know what she's really gone through and her thoughts and wants, learn to sympathize even though it might be hard but with this good things come to you

if you constantly talk about her in a negative way then your are indeed jealous. But if you are worried about the baby and the circumstances she might go through then you are just a good friend. but she still needs to pay for the car!

Your best friend is Pregnant, You should give her congratulation.Dint fill jealous. Now she is not your friend, a st anger.

you are jealous because she is pregnant? That really doesnt make sense! she is unmarried!! What is there to be jealous about?

you might be jealous but don't be. Be happy for her and support her. 9 years of friendship shouldn't come between you two. Be friends with her.Best of luck and I hope your friendship will last!