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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

Can a man be happily married but also have strong feelings, (love), for another woman?

A friend, yes REALLY a friend, is having a random love affair with a married man. He lives out of the country in Europe with his wife and she lives here in his former home town. They keep in touch via email and always get together when he is home visiting his parents, 2-3 times a year). Sometimes she even flys out to meet him when he comes to the states for work, (again 2-3 times a year.) She thinks he loves her, although he doesn't tell her that, and she certainly loves him. Is it possible that he loves her or is only into the sex? I just see her more and more invested in this relationship and feel she may get hurt. I can't give her any real advice because I've never had a relationship like an affair.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well..Tori Spelling got cozy with a married man and he ended up dumping his wife and getting cozy with her, they got married and now are expecting child no. 2.

    *MY point is that..it can happen, but it is unlikely.

    If he has yet to tell her he loves her it could be he using her as a companion/booty call.

    She needs to stop living in la la land/cloud nine and walk away from the relationship. *Although it'll be very very hard..she has to do it, it's not something she wants to do, but something she should do..as what she is doing isn't right..but it's her life, if she wants to dig herself in a deeper hoel...let her, she'll realize this mistake..when he finds someone else to replace her./

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Such a shame she is wasting her life on a man that cannot and will not commit to her.

    You are right she wouldn't take any advice even if you did try to help.

    It must be so romantic to meet him briefly and romanticize instead of the reality of being married to him, bearing his children, raising them, cleaning the house, taking care of laundry, bills, garbage. You get the picture.

    He is using her for sex. I feel sorry for his wife. If it were me I would send a letter to her anonymously (the wife) telling her what a jerk she is married to.

    Then he would have to do something about it. Either leave his wife or give up your friend. Just a suggestion. But at least her wait would be over. And the wife could move on.

    I was married to a man that cheated on me.. I wish someone had told me when he first started doing it. I could have had left him 3 years sooner..

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes. I think men should be able to have more than one wife only because they don't know how to keep their dick in their pants.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would say he is just using her for sex

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  • me m
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    its free sex for him, and when (you) she stops it he will find another easy girl to sleep with.

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