Is it normal for a wife to accuse her husband of being gay in front of their children?

No, it's not normal. She sounds like a real idiot, and she's repeating her idiocy by teaching her child to act like one too.

No it is not normal or ethical actually; if the wife feels that you have an attraction for the same sex then she should address it in private.I actually think she accuses him of being gay because he probably not as wild as she is and thinks he is boring; Since the daughter is now taunting the dad; he should tell her I know alot of kids in single family homes; letting her know that if he really was gay he would not be living with her mother I bet she will think before saying that next time.

No, I don't think it's normal for a wife to accuse her husband of being gay in front of anyone much less their children. I think if that is a concern it should be done in private.

It sounds as if this household is out of control. You might want to consider family counseling.

No it is not normal, the wife should keep her mouth shut when the children are around!!! Now the daughter is doing the same things, god the woman needs help!!! None of this is normal!!!

Wow how sad for the children. Wife sounds unstable and needs a bit of growing up. Husband needs a backbone and stick up for himself.

Do not put up with it, help your daughter, may be you can try to explain to your partner( do not want to call her your wife ),she is your enemy number one, not only she is trying to hurt you but she is definitely hurting her daughter, I hope that she loves her kids more than she hates you.

May be it is time you show her how much not gay you are, by leaving her by finding another lady .

is this a real family???

I cant comment on the dad as you dont tell us anything apart from his daughters allegation/comment, so lets presume hes "normal"

the mother and daughter ? well they are seriously messed up and need professional help ............ FAST

No it is not normal, No argument between spouses should be seen or heard by a child. They all need counseling.

I feel sorry for that guy. He's got a looser wife and now she's going to start a new generation just like her.

That sounds like a dysfunctional relationship to me.