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Husband looking for job?
My husband is on Parole. He came home last week. He has a criminal record from stupid mistakes when he was younger and has been clean from drugs for the past 4 years.
His Parole officer stated yesterday, that if my husband does not find a job by next week, he will go back to prison.
He has been looking for a job for a week now and has a few good leads, but nothing has panned out yet. The Parole officer said "No" on part time jobs, which have been offered. He has to have Full time or he goes back to prison.
He is working with at least 3 employment agencies. He puts in at least 14 applications a day and had a few interviews and does follow ups.
How can I stay encouraging to him when I'm crushed inside knowing that he may go back to prison for 4 years, next week? Jobs are so hard to come by and he has been trying so hard.
How can they expect him to find a job in two weeks? He has been in prison for 3 years already. He just wants to move on with his life and have a chance.
I am NOT asking for judgemental responses. Just looking for suggestions on how I can be supportive to my husband.
You would be surprised how easy it is to get drugs in prison! He has been clean and does participate in AA meetings, Outpatient Rehab programs and under professional medical care.
He has applied and was denied employment with McDonalds, Burger King, Wal-Mart, Rite Aid and many other places. He hasn't given up yet.
13 Answers
- blujelloLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
The parole officers demands are unreasonable. It takes someone with a clean record longer than two weeks to find a job!!! Let alone someone recently released from prison. I think that if your husband has been putting forth an intense and honest effort, especially if he is working with a few agencies that if it boiled down to it that he could avoid going back to jail. I'm sure that there would be some sort of hearing before they put him back in jail (I'm assuming for parole violation), at which time you guys could scrape together all the evidence of his efforts and present it to the judge. I'm talking about copies of applications, rejection letter, letters from the agencies, anything to prove he's been looking. Good luck to you guys!
- 1 decade ago
It seems to me that his parole officer is a little bit unreasonable.
It is difficult for anybody with a clean record to find a full time job these days.
You say that he must find a job by next week right? The only thing I can think of is to get his or your relative or friend to give him a job, if anybody you know own a business or a restaurant, the owner can always give him a full time job. At least you have something to show the parole officer, so he can leave him alone.
Good luck to you
By the way, you didn't mention if paying restitution is part of the term of your husband's probation. If that is the case, you must keep up with the restitution.
My uncle owns several restaurants in the orange county areas, and he hired this one person who is on probation (full time) in the kitchen. That's why I suggested you to try the privately owned restaurants, and businesses. If you have friends and relatives own business, that would be the best.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Other than being extremly strong and hopeful. You cant do anything with these people. They will not listen to anything. Cops and parole officers just plain suk. you cannot win. Jails are not rehabilitation centers. They are storage units that add fuel to the fire and make bad situations worse. If hi P.O. looks into his efforts and see's he is trying then he'll have to work. Believe me the last thing these people want to do is their job. Its way easier to just throw em back in prison. Where do you live? He can work for me.
- Bailey's mom♥Lv 71 decade ago
I understand everyone deserves a chance no matter who they are, but his parole officer should know how hard he is trying and help him find a job, his parole officer should not want to send him back to jail, so his parole officer should be doing everything and anything he can to help him out.
I would ask his parole officer for help and tell his parole officer how hard he is working and tell his parole officer how afraid you are that he will go back, I think he really needs to get in touch with his parole officer and work with him more.
I wish you luck!
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- chatoLv 61 decade ago
Maybe the parole officer is just preassuring him to get ajob so he really gets a job and gets a second chance at life.
- RacinLv 61 decade ago
Sorry but I don't believe that they will put him back in jail if he is unemployed. That just doesn't make sense. How can your husband control the unemployment rate in this country? Sounds like there is more to this than finding a job. Someone's not telling the whole story.
- Angela OLv 51 decade ago
I understand what you are saying, that it is hard for him with his history and the job market, but I also agree with them. So many people would find it easier to not bother looking and stay on social assistance than actually find and get a job. He is just being pushed/motivated.
Good luck to you and to him in his job hunt.
- 1 decade ago
Check with friends and family and see if their place of employment is hiring. That, or try McDonalds.