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Older men marry younger women all the time, Why do not see the other way around?

I was just wondering, this is NOT something to do with me. I was just thinking because I heard many times that it is wrong for an older woman to marry an younger man. And people always say it is okay for an older man to marry a younger woman. When we all know that a man's life span is shorter than a women. May be that way a woman can have childern when she feels ready and old enough and the man can will have more time to spend with his childern.

Let's say the age is man 27 and the woman is 32.

Update:

I have seen older men who are immature and at the same time younger men who are very mature. I agree mature has somewhat to do with age but not always

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    That's not a very big age difference. But like most people said....women mature faster than men do and their sex drives are totally different during different periods of their lives. I think a younger man is perfect for an older woman because he can full fill her sexual needs better than a man her age can.

  • 5 years ago

    Depending on age spread between the two, I think men tend to think of older women more like a mother than a lover, if the age spread was something like 10 or more years. That's a turn-off. Plus, usually the guy is looking for a younger, prettier woman - some women don't age well - so if she's much older than him, before long, she looks like his grandmother - and that's definitely not a turn on. I've heard statistics prove a man lives longer married to a younger woman, but have never heard any statistics regarding the other way around... maybe not common enough to sample?

  • 1 decade ago

    It has been a myth that older women can't marry an younger man, people always criticize them in different way, but society always see with good eye that an older man marry a young girl...like it I said society play a big roll on this and how we have been educate also religion and a different sort things.

  • 1 decade ago

    Men mature slower then women. And I know of two couples who are wonderful together where the man is the younger of the two.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Men mature slower than women. Older women like toy boys, but won't marry immature men.

  • 1 decade ago

    well its usualy because woman mature faster than men so they just cant handle ones younger than them becuase they would be way to imature,

    but some woman like that,, so i guess it depends on the person,

    i for sure wouldnt a younger guy whos so imatue that he thinks hes so high and mighty dating a girl older than him and gets more than his friends :p

  • 1 decade ago

    Statistically, men mature about 5 years, on average, slower than women.

  • 1 decade ago

    michelle, Pesonaly I think it is a matter of security. But if true love is involed it realy does not matter what the ages of a man and a women are ! Marrige is meant to be an eternal bond.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its a biological thing - we're driven to pass on our genes, hence, we want the younger women of child bearing age....

  • 1 decade ago

    turn on the t.v. i don't know where you have been that is the latest craze in hollywood and everywhere else.i married a younger man and i have no regrets .he is 4yrs and 8 months younger.

    Source(s): television,and my own experience
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