i need help with a guy?

dang gurl I'm sorry.. sometimes guys sux and they play you... its hard to tell if a guy is sincere and likes you or if hes just playing the game sometimes... i do know this tho` sometimes you just gotta play the game or you end up getting played by the game... its sad but its true...

so you lost your V card to a jerk that suxs, but its in thee past i guess... nowhere to go but forward now you have two options...

you cheated on your guy...but remember he is a man and you really can't put anything past them...maybe he slipped out on you before too..it happens especially if you have been on and of a couple of times... me personally i would just keep it to myself...simple don't tell him... and then forget it...you know but just hold it against the other guy...lol..

BUT if you are not the type to keep it to yourself and you think telling him is the Right thing to do then... you can either tell him it was a big mistake and that you really do care about him sorry you know... or you can say that the guy just kinda kissed you and play it off as it was him who initiated it first...

but if you are asking advice most likely it really bothers you so if you feel like you need to tell him... choose your words carefully because its gonna hurt anyway you put it... sorry i couldn't be more help...

First of all, a hard story to follow there. Secondly, you shouldn't be going out with a guy for the fourth time. If I follow correctly, this *** is into your aunt after taking your virginity. FORGET THIS GUY AND DON'T EVER GO BACK TO HIM. I am a firm believer that some people are lost causes and will be jerks their entire life. This guy blatantly seems like one of those guys and simply wanted to tap an attractive younger woman to make himself feel better about himself. Lastly, how old/messed up is this guy if he's going after your aunt?

Well, u had fun n u evn say he is older.. rite!! now leave him since u had pleasure & its not possible to continue wit him.. yeh u hav cheated on a ur present guy but neva mind things wont change until u dont show singns.. juss compromise with ur heart n go ahed wit your life n du wateva is better for u..

Dont repeat the mistake or it will bcum a habit..

All the best.

If a guy likes your aunt than you need to give him up and tell him to F off because thats messed up and you dont do that, but cheating isnt right and you should have though harder about who you give your V card too.

you cheated!? that's a big no no. if you really like the other guy why would you cheat on him with some older dude? you really did mess up. so here goes, tell your aunt that that one guy wants to bang her. then tell the guy you like and are going out with again that you gave up your 'v' and that you are really sorry and then he will either forgive you or call you some nasty names and not want anything to do with you again.

wow. 4th time? thats got to be an award winning record id say

so seems like you cheated on your boyfriend with this guy??? forget about this guy it doesnt seem like he really cares about you find someone that does care about you & that you care about..