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Jenni
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Jenni asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

worked out a fight with my friend; now im scared to get close again?

i screwed up, basically. and she told me flat-out, when we had resolved the issue, that it would take time to become close friends again. i understand that and i respect it. but i dont know how to go about fixing it. i dont want to invite her to sleepovers and hang out with her if its going to be awkward, even if thats what it takes to rebuild the relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    just dont let her get away from you...you need to stay involved in her life or she may close you out of hers. be honest with her about how you are feeling. if you really were that close, it shouldnt be that awkward. maybe start by just going to get coffee or ice cream or something, you dont need to go straight to a sleepover right away. or have you get together in a group so that its just not you and her.

  • 1 decade ago

    yeah, its hard to rebuild relationship again after you have been hurt. I can also relate with your situation. I also had a hard time mending broken friendship.. But one thing I learned..It is not time that heals all wounds. Its love.

    Love always wins.

    I hope that you'll find great joy in loving & caring again with your best friend.

    God bless!

  • 1 decade ago

    it may be but if you and her really want to be friends you should just do it. My friend and I went thru the same thing but it didn't work out for us because she wouldn't change even tho I did, but if you can change and she wants to be friends then you should try.

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