just tell me theres one decent freakin guy out there like seriously...?

i kno this sounds so sexist but to me they all seem to be the same.. sure i have the guy friends but i recently dated one of my best ones and found out he was a di*k that hurt so bad because we seemed so perfect untill the last 2 weeks or so like idk i didnt wanna do ne thing about it because i didnt wanna regret loosing him and stuff and i dont play that "break up" game.. im fine like seriously and its not like im takin it out on all guys but seriously i just hate lookin for the "one" wish it was easier but right now i just need some hope... is there a good one out there seriously and not just puttin on some cheesy act to get laid.. i kno im a bit*h alot but its more just cuz i want a guy to be willing to do things not that im making him i just wanna kno he would is that too hard? and honestly it is the little things i like.. like kisses unexpectedly and stuff ugh just help... all genders welcome to answer lol