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Tetosterone?

Does anyone else have this problem with their husband? My husband doesn't act like a normal guy. He doesn't talk about sex alot or find other women attractive. I know some of you are gonna be shocked but.. I wished he would want sex more and be more masculine. Sometimes I feel like we are just married best friends.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Then why won't you tell him to pursue more. Didn't you choose him initially because he was less aggressive. Not communicating your thoughts is equivalent to having one of 13 billion fantasies in your head and expecting the other person to not only guess which one but to act it out. I believe an awful lot of couples play this type of charades game with one another.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is a complex issue, there are many reasons for men to be this way , health issues , stress, your physical appearance , his personal self esteem,perhaps he is a closet homosexual , break the wall of communication down and talk about it

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe you too need a real sitdown and talk about this if you cant maybe see a counselor. he may be having some problems or it may be normal. is it possible maybe that he might be gay.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he's on the down-low "God forbid".

    I think you should hire a private investigator just in case.

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  • Lydia
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    May be time to encourage him to go have a full physical at the doctor - then they can do bloodwork, test his hormone levels, too.

    Be ever so GRATEFUL he's not oogling other women - he has you!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He was like that when you first met him , so ,

    Whats your complaint all about ?

    Accept him for what he is , not what you want him to be .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe he needs to go to the doctor...maybe he DOES have low testosterone....have him checked out!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No one has more testosterone than my husband.

    Its like living with a caveman.

    Count your blessings!

    LOL!

    Source(s): KJ-LMAO! Not quite.......very funny though! He takes the same Metra train out of Union Station in the Loop that nonameblonde does! Funny huh? They are on the Elgin/Big Timber....... : )
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Valerie, i think i know your husband. he's in Geico commercials, isn't he? LOL!

    Source(s): good, it's not him. i thought i have to say 'v's so easy, even the cave man can do her'. JUST KIDDING!!!(old and lame, i know....) LOL I took the Milwaukee district North line for a while, when i did the 'downtown' thing. =) BIG TIMBER? that figures... :p
  • 1 decade ago

    Talk with him.Ask him about this subject.

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