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Sex Question?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we begin having sex for the past 3 months now and I lost my virginity to him so i guess i am kinda new to this but my boyfriend has not *** even once

not one time during sex am i not satsifying him is it a bad thing what should I do help!!

Update:

the word that has the *** is came

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  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Talk to him about it. Some guys find it more difficult to climax than others.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Does he seem to enjoy himself whilst making love to you? If so, perhaps he is on medication with side effects that stop him ejaculating. I suffer from depression and I take antidepressants. One of the side effects of the drug is that no matter how hard I try, I just can't climax. I still enjoy sex but I could be doing it non stop for hours and the only fluid I lose is sweat. It is rather frustrating not to have that sexual release at the end of a session. My partner is not complaining however. She reaches orgasm about ten times in a session.

  • 1 decade ago

    Did you know that men can have mental blocks that keep them from finishing? It's true. Don't automatically peg this as being "your" fault. He may just need to relax a little bit...

    Talk with him about it. You definitely have every right to be concerned. Don't feel odd asking him his thoughts on the subject. Ok?

    Source(s): My previous husband had this same issue. Not once...in 2 years! It wasn't me. I can assure you that. ;) Good luck chica!
  • 1 decade ago

    Outside of the bedroom, sit down and talk to him about it. Something tells me that something is fishy. Are you sure he is a guy and not a girl with a strap on? I don't mean to offend you but I have seen this on these talk shows. Does he have an adams apple? have you actually seen him down there? Think about it!

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  • Eddie
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    you stated he has not ejaculated once during sex, has he ejaculated during foreplay with you or masturbation. Sex is a area people do not like to talk to their partner about but I think u should and find out the stuff that really turns him on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he obviously either has a psych problem or I would ask him if he takes any types of antidepressants or medications because that could be the reason. If not, ask him if he is able when he is alone and if so, its all in his head. he may have a medical problem and they can probably help him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your going to ave to satisfy him or hell leave you. Trust me. I know. Watch porn and get some ideas. I know iknow your probably thinking "what is this guy talking about?" "is he drunk?" And the anser is yes i am. Porn always give you great ideas. There professionalls! Just like doctors, lawers, and ninjas. They know what there talking about. Well gotta go good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats Him not you!!!...Thats so weird..im thinking hes has alot more sex then you...right!!...my hubby when we 1st meet he would take for EVER to *** but then later he told em that was cuz he masterbated all the time....so thats all on the man sweetie!!..Just keep having Fun

  • xK
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    My advice remains the same: talk to him about it. Outside of the bedroom, of course. If you can't be honest with each other about something so intimate, you may need to rethink your relationship.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He needs to tell you what makes him feel good and work with you. Don't forget, you also have to be satisfied! Otherwise, he's got issues. Like someone once said, "It takes two to tango."

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