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(ladies only) i got told no :(?

i asked out this girl today and she told me no. i've known her now for my entire freshmen year and we seemed to have somekind of chemestry. i don't know if it's because she doesn't like me for my personality or if it's because i'm a little overweigh. with the whole overweight thing i don't know if thats an issue because evryone i know has told me that i slimmed down alot since the begining of the school year. she told me she just wanted to be friends and all i want to know "is there something wrong with me?"

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  • 1 decade ago
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    no, theres nothing wrong with you. Its possible she does just want to be friends.

    Im in the same situation but with a guy and im too afraid to ask him :] but i hope this helps you :]

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  • 1 decade ago

    hey there! im sure there is nothing wrong with you...and im sure your weight is fine. Not sure how old u are...but if your in HS...that might explain it. I know from my own experience...i would flirt with boys all the time..but i was scared as heck to be asked out or be in an actual relationship. Dating can be scary when your new to it...u never know...maybe she's nervous. If you thought u 2 had chemistry...then mostly likely you did :) so keep on trying to get to know her.

    Stay positive and dont beat yourself up over it...there will be plenty of more opportunities for you...and more girls too. best of luck *J*

  • rissa
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    She just wasn't into you. It doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. There are other girls and three more years of highschool AND college, and jobs. It's not the end of the world.

  • 1 decade ago

    theres many reasons why she said no

    theres nothing wrong WITH YOU

    trust me

    my friend asked me out and i said no, i regret it now but were bestfirends!

    shes prolly unsure about something dnt feel too bad

  • 1 decade ago

    No there is nothing wrong with you she just likes you as a friend. I'm also guessig you aren't a jock.

  • 1 decade ago

    i think she is a *****. sorry. but i could never turn down a guy for even one date. no matter how ugly, or fat.

  • 1 decade ago

    if it was a flat *** no there definitely a good reason y she said no, so maybe you should ask her y

  • 1 decade ago

    ask her why she wouldn't go out with you

  • 1 decade ago

    how would we know....

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