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Whats the quickest way to get over someone you that has broken your heart but you loved alot?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If you are 100% positive you want to get over him, this is what you do.
1)Get rid of everything that makes you think of him. This means any pictures of him, things of his you might still have, cards you may have kept, anything like that. Then go on your computer and delete any pictures of him you have there, delete any saved IM conversations, block him on anything you use like facebook, myspace, AIM, YIM, anything like that.
Also delete his number from your cell. Just make sure you have no contact with him.
2) Now that you've done that, you've taken the first big step to getting over someone. if you want to get over someone, you can NOT talk to them. every time you do, even a simple text message, it will re-open the wound. I know it hurts at first, but in a few days you'll start to see its for the best.
3) Now you distract yourself. Spend time with friends you may have neglected during the relationship, pick up a new hobby like maybe learning to play a musical instrument, or if you don't already have a job get one. Just do anything you can to keep busy and keep your mind off him.
As long as you cut off all contacts with him and you keep yourself busy, you WILL eventually get over him.
It takes time. trust me and you'll see, it gets a little better every day.
good luck. :)
- Just me.Lv 41 decade ago
I experienced this before and had a totally broken (or crushed!) heart. It took me about 3 years to get over, So, I honestly don't know if there is a 'quick' way to get over someone! I say to Pray and Trust God because you can't go wrong with that. Use this time to get closer to God by going to church and reading yoru bible. Also, Socialize with your girlfriends as much as possible! Get a part-time job like babysitting children, or whatever to keep your mind occupied! Get involved in a sport or activity like swimming or whatever you enjoy! May God bless you!
Some may say to get another boyfriend..but I think it's a good idea to not get seriously involved with someone right away. Yes, go casual dating, but you probably won't fall in love right away. And anyway, you don't want anyone to feel like he is the 'rebound' guy.
- horeyLv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
ohh hon i dont think there is a quick wayy like come on now yuh love/loved them alot if yuh call that love cant get it over it that fast cantcha now
well i say take a break a mini vacation away from home away from yur daily routines so yuh can get some time alone to think if that maybe isnt possable b/c of skool or job or something just isolate urself a bit from everyone and when yuh feel its safe to socialize again dont stress over that dude who broke ur heart try not to think of him but of yur self
good luck! wish yuh the best much love ;]
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- omeLv 41 decade ago
If you lived together, try making as many changes around you as you can. Take down pics of the two of you and give away things that remind you of him. If you get into a new relationship, keep it in mind that you are vulnerable and don't jump into anything too quickly... give yourself time to adjust before making any real commitment - very important.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I have a few ideas...
1.Beat the **** out of him,
2.Set his front porch on fire,
3.Go where he goes out and make a complete fool out of him,
4.Smash up his car.
Those are the fastest ways, if you're on a time-limit :)
why did he break your heart?
who gives anyone the right to break someone else's heart?
There should be a freaking law against this...
Source(s): A woman broke my heart but I can't hit her coz she's a woman. - 1 decade ago
speaking from someone who is goin thru it right now... there is no other way except TIME... only time heals im afraid and in that time u need to try and keep yr self distracted and busy as posible.. whether its meeting friends or seeing family.. nothing else actually helps, but in time it will get easier eventually
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Buy something on credit that is really expensive so you can focus only on the debt and work everyday with no time to think about the person.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
thats a bit hard but not impossible....go out with friends....try do things that keep u away from thinking about him..dont feel sorry for urself....think that thats d way it had to end....better now than in d future