Am I a stalker?

just forget her.. she is probably going through some level 5 period stage.. go figure..

get a new "almost" girlfriend! problem solved =)

Well, it IS kind of weird... you were just driving by and you had to stop and search for her. I can understand if you saw her car at a place you were already going to and you kept an eye out for her, but you went a little overboard. Why did you want to find her and talk to her that badly? And going to her kids' karate class might be inappropriate... she's not even your girlfriend, right? Her kids were probably like "who's the freak coming to see mommy during MY karate class?" I would not be too happy if you had done that to me. You'd have to apologize a million times and NEVER do anything like that again, and be an awesome person if I were going to consider dating you after what you did. She may not want to see you again. So tell me, what were you thinking? And seriously, are you a stalker? Or were you just doing one of those dumb man things that men do because they sometimes act like idiots and lose their common sense?

Well I guess she would have never expected to see you at her kids karate class and might have arrived at the wrong conclusion that you found out where she was and came over there particularly. There might be some past incident due to which she arrived at this hasty conclusion.

When she's cooled down, explain it to her. Dont try explaining it to her now, she'll think ur more of a stalker.

I don't know whether you're a stalker, but her reaction seems extreme. Unless you've done something else before this incident, I don't understand why she said that. However, young people tend to misuse a lot of words. They don't uunderstand the impact the words really have.

did you explain that situation to her? but yeah, it's a bit creepy when someone "just shows up" where you are. Give the girl some space and then explain yourself. DO NOT call her for a little while, that just reinforces the stalker thing.

Um, not necessarily a stalker. I hope anyway. But, the thing is, have you met her child yet? If not, that was probably the problem. OR did you mention that you looked for her, because walking by and seeing her there is one thing, but the fact that you looked for her, is a bit intense. But I wouldn't say stalker style.

lol, that person is crazy, good thing you didn't go out with her man.. to answer your question no you aren't a stalker, you saw her car that looked just like hers and you wanted to see what she has been up to so you looked for her, you guys were almost a couple so I sorta dont see the problem, unless she just wanted her space.

That was inappropriate. You pushed it. You don't see that? You apparently missed the class on social graces. Call her and tell her that you're sorry for being so inconsiderate. At some point in the next 3 or 4 thousand years, she'll get over it.

Good luck!

Maybe it would of been a better move to text her saying that u had just seen her car and did she want to meet for a coffee or something. I wouldnt worry about it, whats done is done, maybe shes just got a bit of PMT at the moment.

well technically you did kind of but not really. but you shouldnt have gone and "searched" her up. people can sometimes take it the wrong way. like your girl did. if you guys were both shopping and ran into each other its ok but if you went in to find her just to say hello then thats kinda weird

U r not a stalker you were just saying hello