My stupid friend is being stupid.?

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Okay, one of my friend's is getting married and she's already had 2 surprise parties. Now of my other friends wants to throw her a bachelorette party but I don't want to go because the night will consist of dancing, dinner, dessert and drinks at 3 different places. I think something like that will be too expensive, so I don't want to go. I told my friend that my husband and I will be celebrating our anniversary that weekend, but she suggested to do it another weekend. This party is being so stressful and such a chore, it's as if she's forcing me to come. I already told her I can't come but she still wants me to come, what should I tell her now?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Tell her that you have gone to her 2 other party & can't afford to spend the money on another one. The money can be better spend on your anniversary dinner.

You have been neglecting your husband of late & want to make it up to him this weekend,,,,,

Anonymous · Answer

ur friends are dorks u guys are acting like freakin 5th graders i suggest that you tell ur pals to grow up and end their little soap opera they're spazing out over something so ridiculouss but if u did tell the girl ( i'm not sayin that u did) that was a bad decision. i asked to move away from an anoying kid that was distracting me and i got moved, no ones feelings were hurt and everything was cool (the girl was my friend too) get new friends

Anonymous · Answer

Go to one and when the times comes for you friend to have her first wedding reception, invite her to something else, and if she say she has plans for HER wedding anniversary tell her to put it of for a week or so.

Detroiter1967is outa here! · Answer

Whose being stupid now! not only is this ? posted under the wrong cat as in polls & surveys but, it's a no brainer. Are you afraid to be honest with your friends... 
Tell them you don't think it's in your budget to be able to swing three different places. They'll either treat you or just not include you or they'll come up with some other plan so you are included.

Man_With_No_Name · Answer

Why is this in polls and surveys?

Okay, advice. Tell her what you just said. Be honest and frank with her about the expense of everything and maybe she'll compromise. If she gets upset because you don't want to go just  be firm and express your apologies. Also, it doesn't hurt to tell her that you'll do something else for her some other time.

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Hey you can't please them all. Just go to the one you want to and don't put off your wedding anniversary plans. She is being selfish actually.

Anonymous · Answer

Id just say that there is no way humanly possible for you to go

? · Answer

Blame your hubby

Keri · Answer

Tell her that you don't want to go

Cassie (STEP BACK BITCHES) · Answer

Tell her that you plan on getting pregnant....on that night.....

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