My g/f has pain during sex?

If your girlfriend is experiencing pain during or after sex there may be several factors that are contributing to the pain she feels. For women there are a number of physical conditions that may make sex hurt, including:

* Pelvic Inflammatory Disease

* Endometriosis

* Ovarian cysts

* Interstitial cystitis

* Vaginismus

* Vulvodynia

* Some sexually transmitted diseases

* Urinary infections

* Yeast infections

* Vaginal dryness

* Physical injury and chronic pain

I would recommend that if your girlfriend continues to experience pain during or after sex that she consults with her doctor/gynaecologist for further evaluation and to rule out any serious causes.

Good luck :)

Sounds like she is allergic to laytex. Try laytex-free condoms, water based only. They should be a lot less irritating for her.

If the problem continues, she should be seeing a gynecologist to check for problems. Frankly, she should be seeing one anyway since she is sexually active now.

I would encourage her to get on birth control. Its a lot safer, and you're a lot less likely to get her pregnant if you use some from of birth control (i.e. the ring, pill, shot, or patch) in ADDITION to condoms.

Is she small? That could also have an affect on whether or not she has pain. Theoretically, the vagina can stretch to fit any size man. However, if she is on the smaller side, she could just be a little small for you.

If she is still having pain after 25+ times of having sex, that is a DEFINITE cause for concern. I would encourage her to go to a gynecologist ASAP even if laytex-free condoms improve the situation a little. Its very important that she gets this checked out, as the problem could be far more serious.

I hope this helps, and feel free to email me anytime through my profile if you need more help or want tot talk.

First, she should get on some sort of birth control...just to be safe. : ) I know too many girls who used condoms and had accidents, anyway, and 16 is too young for your girl to be dealing with a baby...and maybe you, too, depending on how old you are. That being said, it sounds like she is having some kind of allergic reaction to latex or she is getting a urinary tract infection from the spermicide. Try a non-latex condom with regular lubricant instead of spermicide, and see if that helps with her burning sensation. Also, make sure she goes to the gynecologist now that she's sexually active, just as a routine checkup. If there happens to be anything else going on, the doc will notice it.

take her to the doctor. It sound like she is having a reaction to you. You could be to big for her. it could be she has a latex allergy to the condom. there are a thousand could be's, be safe and have her check with the doctor. The pain during sex after the first time, that needs to be address as well. It's not suppose to hurt.

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Try non-spermicidal condoms. Nonoxynon-9 can cause burning sencation.

It might be that you cut her inside or something when you're going in or during floreplay and the spermicide is getting into the cuts.

that happened to me before and it really burned. -___-

I would suggest going to a doctor.

It could be becuase she has a yeast infection.

Or a bacterial infection.

But you never know untill you talk to a doctor.

she needs to follow up with her gyn for an exam and STD testing. the STD testing would be in your best interest, too.