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why doesn't he call once in a while?

i had a friendly date with this guy about 3 wks ago. We had fun go kart racing, watching a movie, and later on he gave me a tour of his apartment. It had a nice view and a pool and all that. Nothing sexual happened. He gave me some compliments during our date and seemed really interested when I told him that we should go out again. But now he never calls or sends me a message. I know he has a job and goes to school, but it only takes a second 2 call someone up and say hi. I've called + texted him a few times and no answer. We finally talked 1 day like normal people but then again no calls afterward. I'm confused...If a guy is interested in some1 wouldn't he call once in a while? Do you think he has a girlfriend or is dating other girls? We met through myspace and he has plenty of female friends on his page or do you think that he thinks i might not be that interested in him?

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  • Ami
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sounds like he thinks of you as a friend but you want more. Since you went out only once 3 weeks ago I think it's best if you move on and date other people. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    When a men see that a woman is so interested in him like you is he is going to play hard to get. What your mistake was that it was you that sound so desperate when you tell him that you and him should go out on a date again and not the other way around of him asking you. You really sound too desperate and scared him so stop calling him anymore and if he doesn't called anymore moved on and learned your lesson of not being so desperate on a date.

  • 1 decade ago

    He might be a player, but you never know. Some guys think girls will like them more if they don't call or text often, but from the way you told it, I'm sorry to say he might not be interested at all

    Source(s): Experience
  • 1 decade ago

    well this is tough but im cloncluding he is a guy he doesnt like to move to fast and maybe he wants a kiss or something but i dont think its a girl or you just be more outgoing sorry to say but i mean come on the date sounds boring i mean even a movie with a group of friends and him let him see how you interact with others but you have to rember he is not there ( but he is) but act like he is not let him see you laugh run whatever you usually do let him see you invite him to somewhere kiddy and have fun im sure he will call you even take a swim

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  • Jack
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Your exactly right, if a guy is interested in you, he would call. Which remains the obvious fact that since he didn't, in all likely hood is really isn't into you.

    I've been wrong before, and I openly admitt it, but in this situation I'd say stop pursuing that relationship.

  • Lol
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Yeah sorry, hes a player. like you said, he has plenty of female friends on his page, and im thinking that he just wanted to hit it that one night and you didnt give it to him. Either that, or hes just not interested at all. Move on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he was at all interested in you, he would grab each opportunity he had to get into contact with you.

    Just forget about him and move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    He is either into you or not into you. Does not matter how busy someone is, they always find time for someone they like. If he has not called, he doesn't want to date you.

    It does hurt to hear things like that, especially when you truly like someone but it is true. When someone wants you, they will find a way to get in touch with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe he brought you home to his apartment for a reason and since he didn't get money from the "tour" he isn't interested anymore.

  • 5 years ago

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