I think I've met my soulmate, but he's married. I know he feels it too. What should we do?

You sound like you are playing with fire being with a married man and thinking he is the one. I was with a 39 year old married man with kids and he cheated on me with someone else and if he cheated on his wife, sorry to break the news, but it is true he will cheat on you too. When a man cheats once, he will again. Once a cheat always a cheat and if yo do not get out now and break up, he will eventually just end up breaking your heart. How can you consider someone that is still legally married youe soulmate?

You think he feels it too? You know what he feels? Most men are driven by testosterone. He's feeling the need to get naked with you. Men don't feel with their souls, they feel with their tool.

You both have kids. Your kids have experienced divorce and it will probably have lifelong effects for them. Don't put this guy's kids through that. Find someone single. Honestly, there is NO relationship that doesn't become complacent over time. Your possible relationship with him would seem exciting for a while, but having to deal with his ex would make you insane. And you would always be "the other woman" to his ex AND his kids, and they would hate you and actively make your life hell as long as you would be with the guy. It would never, ever work.

He is having a wife right now, am I right? My advice is that it is better if you'll just remain as good friends. Hurting the wife's feelings will not bring both of you good results. And if this relationship will just be the mark of a broken family for your 'soulmate', then, it would not be love anymore. Am I right?? As what they all say:"Love is not selfish." If you love the person, you'll do what should be the right move that will benefit not only you, but especially for your love's sake. :] I know it is not easy to let go; but sometimes, we just have to. :] I hope you'll find the right person. :] good day!!

Imagine this. You are still married, and some woman thinks your husband is her soul mate. How would you feel, regardless of what your husband thought. I would suggest you walk away while you still have some self respect You say you know he feels it too. Does he, or is it your longing imagination? Do you really want to be a home wrecker?

If he feels it then he will divorce his wife otherwise stay away from him....

With respect to the above answer he may be having trouble in his marriage atm and likes to have a temporary partner...

Not a thing. Really...do you really want all that drama? I mean if you decide to go with it, be prepared to have a s*** load of unneccesary drama.

IF he feels the same way .he will find away to be with you.. other wise .YOUR JUST SOMEONE TO MESS AROUND WITH TILL HE GETS CAUGHT .OR MAKES THE DECISION TO LEAVE HER AND HIS KIDS..HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND TO EAT IT TO..

leave it be , your single he's not dont go screwing up other peoples lives and hurting his kids... you want to hurt someone... hurt someone who's single. dont be a @!#@#$#$ home wrecker

Leave him alone nothing but trouble.