Love should be both ways. When it is not?

There has at least to be mutual respect.. mutual trust and honesty and the ability to talk to your partner about anything and everything .. if you can't share that anymore then the foundation of the marriage is gone.. then there is nothing left.. if you got that left you could make it still work but it takes 2 and only with a willing partner if your partner is willing to work on the marriage then you can find back together if not there is only one thing to do.. get out and start your life over.. join a club or a group and make some friends there.. that will help you in the beginning to feel less lonely.. but it's not good to stay in a marriage just for the sake of convenience.. you deserve better than that... you deserve a partner who loves you in return for who you are... xxx

You need to be honest and communicate things out with your partner. If each person thinks about loving the other, then that is what love is all about by not thinking of yourself and think about how to make your partner happy. There is more to a relationship then just sex, it is really knowing your partner for the way they are, working out problems together, being with each other the rest of your life. When love is only one way, you can count on a divorce because one is always giving and the other is always taking! Love will work and it is a challenge, but well worth it with the right person!

You got to set those boundaries. If for anybody else...for yourself. Mark a line in the sand and don't go past it.

so your in a loveless marriage--deal with it

you said "til death do us part", so either live by your word and suck it up, or have your word mean nothing and be treated like the lying cheat you would be. No one likes someone who goes back on their word.

and what was the relationship like before you got married???

something tells me that the problem was always there but perhaps you failed to recognize it before. you cant love enough for two in the relationship

dont ask me--i havent had sex in 2 months