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How would you start a new life, when the one you have is no longer accepted?

This does not mean you act in a destructive manner,but in a creative way.

Update:

ok, you want more details, say you made some mistakes in your life that society doesn't accept. It keeps you from being productive in life.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would first define how your current life is no longer accepted. For example, Nelson Mandela was put in prison for over 25 years. You would think that would stop a man from continuing his efforts towards what he believed in, but it hasn't. Even while in jail, it did not stop him. How you confine yourself is your first area of assessment. Your past mistakes may not allow you to take the same path you were previously on, but it does not mean you have to abandon everything.

    Being productive in life has many faces. I had a friend that recently got out of jail. He now has a criminal record. He was going to school at a top university for his doctorate when he made some bad decisions. He knows what he wants to do, and though his ability to attend college right now is impossible, and his opportunites are now narrowed, it has not deterred him from his goal. His life was hell when he first got out, at every turn he was met with his past, but eventually he found a path he could take.

    Determine what it is that you want, or used to want (if it's worthy of going after). Stop looking at the classic way of achieving this goal and look outside the box. This doesn't have to include negative aspects, this means open yourself up to more than just the single track you've been looking down. Your past mistakes have shown you that there is more than that one track because somehow you got derailed even when you thought you couldn't.

    Start a new life, and to do that.... you have to actually START. Start anywhere (here at Yahoo! Answers is a good enough place as any). Use your own question, and gather the answers that you want (from here and your own mind). It's actually very rare that we don't have the answer to questions that we are asking about ourself, we just want the strength and motivation to go after it. So, get the strength and get after it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow...a loaded question that only YOU have the answer for. By whom is it no longer accepted? If the answer is you, take a good hard look at why you feel that way. It is often helpful to make a list of the + and - things that brought you to this decision. The same is true if the answer is others, only now you are looking 'outside the box in'. The key element is honesty - be honest with yourself. I am sure that you will be amazed at how the + column = the - one. We all feel from time to time that we need/want to start a new life, but it is not easy. I am not saying that we should not or can not, just that it is difficult. The older we are the harder it is. We may find that we are dwelling too much on the negative things in our current situation, vs the positive. If indeed the negative do out weigh the positive, seek some help to answer your questions from a professional, clergy, etc.. These people are trained to help you begin again a positive manner that is best for you. And most of all, learn to pray. He has the answers to everything - all we need is patience.

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    5 years ago

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    1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    It seems to me these days that everything is OK in this society (except for maybe terrorism and child molestation).

    Accept the penalty for what you did. Forgive yourself. Ask those effected to forgive you. Seek help when you need it and not when it's too late.

  • 1 decade ago

    ? Not really sure what you mean, but if the life you were living is no longer accepted then you have to adjust to a new way of doing things.

  • 1 decade ago

    Accepted by whom? Why can't one continue to live the way they are? I think you should elaborate.

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